As you all know from my other posts you know that my boy friend broke up with me on 28th. I was pretty sad and my sex friend had the same problem like i was so we got together to hug and talk....then for some reason we kissed and then we had sex. so then today we had sex again and what happened? he said this will be the last time we have sex together (unprotected) because this sex thing is making our friendship weird....so then i got home crying my eyes out....and then i went to the doctors and she said i might be pregnant since u dont have protection so she gave me the Plan B pill which i took....and i told my friend that whole story and what did he say?
"It's just i don't want kids...and i didnt cam in u."
i said, but there is a chance....so what would u do?
"Idk, what would u do?"
i said i am going to put the child on adoption, because i couldn't take care of a baby i can't even take care of myself.
"I think u should abort it"
i said no i couldn't
then i hung up on him....
so what is the best thing to do? should i just forget about him? and move on?
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Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Vicki, based on how you phrased it, it sounds to me like your doctor was talking about the POSSIBILITY that you're pregnant, but you seem to be reacting as if she said you probably are.... I'm guessing that's not what she actually said.
I don't know what to tell you about your friend, but honestly, and respectfully, after reading all your posts, it doesn't sound like you're emotionally ready to be having sex so soon after breaking up with your boyfriend.....
Vicki Nguyen · ure probably rite....i feel unwanted
Noname1970 · I hate sounding like a "Fatherly Voice Of Experience," but in this case it's true: You may feel this way right now, but you won't always feel this way..... Take some time and work on being happy on your own for a while... there's a lot more to life than feeling "wanted." And trust me: if you can learn to be happy on your own, the relationships you'll have will be better too.
Vicki Nguyen · :) i understand thank you
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ok, vicki, i'm going to agree w/ noname here- he DOES sound like the 'fatherly'-type...... =P but seriously, you don't sound emotionally ready to have a child. take some time on ur own. you'll be better off.
Noname1970 · Adrian, you have no idea!!! Just wait until you're my age and it hits you that you're theoretically old enough to have ADULT children.... just wait...
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · true....hell, i'm only 28, but w/ my gf being 42, essentially i DO have a 21 y/o son and a 17 y/o daughter!!! o_0
Noname1970 · You have my sympathies......
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · thank you, but i actually enjoy the chaos involved!
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