Cross dressing

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Recently my wife asked me to wear high heels (5" spikes), garterbelt and
nylons when we made love, she did also. I have a high heel fetish and have masturbated with them. Even I was still amazed at how much this aroused me to actually wear them and
I will have to admit I enjoyed it very much. Is there anything wrong with
this? Am I crazy?


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Lailey
Lailey / Woman / Likes Men / Single

No, I really dont think there is anything wrong with you because;
1)you said you had a high heel fetish, so obviously wearing them while having sex would arouse you
2)everyone is attracted to different things, and your high heel fetish seems t be quiet a harmless fetish, so no, youre not crazy :)

over 2 years ago
Bandit
Bandit / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I want to do what u doing too. Mayb we can get together and try something new. Plz e mail me.thxs bandit

over 2 years ago
AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

There's nothing wrong. This is totally common. You are one of many.

about 2 years ago
Lee
Lee / Woman / Likes Men / Single

After reading Leo’s question about cross dressing and Cloudy’s about under dressing I decide to share what I think and have found on the subjects.
I delved into researching the subject and have read all material I could find on cross dressing, high heels and lingerie fetishes as well as on the internet. Being anonymous with just a screen name men have openly confessed that they do or have the desire to cross dress. Some have the desire to be forced to cross dress, but you can’t force the willing. HIGH heels then lingerie are close to the top of their list of favorites. Some women tolerate their man’s cross dressing in varying degrees. Some know but pretend not to, other tolerate it with indifference. The lucky ones (lucky for both parties) embrace it with open arms and fully participate. Usably it’s the man who initiates the activity, but on occasion it’s the female the category I am lucky enough to all into. I have found some interesting but not really surprising facts. The vast majority of males that gravitate towards high heels and women’s clothing are straight heterosexuals, cob berated by advice columns such as Dear Abby etc. A society we have to categorize, we label them Cross Dressers and within this we further have terms like Transvestites, Drag Queens, Female Impersonators and Genderbenders. Cross dressing comes in varying degrees, form wearing one article of female clothing to full attire trying to be passable as female, some do not even try to pass just enjoy female clothing this has been labeled as a “genderfuck”. Anyway high heels and lingerie being close to the top of the list preferred apparel. Some “under dress” which is wearing of female appear under their regular clothes on a regular basis. Ponder this, a CEO of a large corporation presiding over a meeting in a $300 business suit wearing a garter belt, nylons and panties under it and just maybe he has is high heels hidden in his desk drawer or under papers in his brief case! With high heels and lingerie being close to the top of the list. Some have stated that their wives or girlfriends will not wear exotic lingerie and high heels for them so they wear these items themselves. These women are missing out! I have read and experienced first hand that, love making; sex with both parties in exotic lingerie and the highest of heels is fantastic!

about 2 years ago
Plain_old_me
Plain_old_me / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Maybe our society, which traditionally places a lot of pressure on the man to perform, while placing none on the woman to be submissive, leads some to want to escape the pressures of traditional male sexuality. That would make sense, especially if you see that you can play a sex role which comes with no performance pressure strings attached.

Either that, or the attraction to cross dress is based on an association between being feminine and receiving pleasure while never experiencing performance pressure in bed.

about 2 years ago
Luvingit
Luvingit / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I am a male I love playing with myself using high heels. Feels so erotic I also loveot make love to spiked stilettoed pumps. Love to kiss them also.

over 1 year ago

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