hi i want my gf to give me a bj but she wont give it to me..and im not being satisfied with just the sex.. i want a little icing on top.. ive been asking for it for a long time.. ive given her orals just to let her know that i need it too.. i spend at least one hour down there just to give her the big O... so how can i make her give me a head??
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Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You can't make her give it to you, she has to want to do it on her own. Reciprocation is essential to a successful relationship, and clearly she does not want to reciprocate.
My first inkling is to say she's a selfish person. However, you could smell bad down there, deterring her from wanting to do it at all. If that's the case, a girl may have trouble telling her boyfriend this because she doesn't want to embarrass him. Check that out.
Otherwise, if you've done it to her and she hasn't done it to you - and you've been asking her for a long time - clearly she doesn't care about you as much as you do about her. Some girls don't like giving blowjobs, but they do it at least once in awhile to make their man happy.
Two years ago, I had a relationship with the same issue - we dated for three months and I couldn't take it anymore. I had gotten one blowjob, and anytime I asked her for a back massage she would say no. She just didn't seem to care, and these little things add up in relationships. Some people may say that not getting head is a bad reason to break up with someone, but that's just part of the reason. The main reason is that she is choosing not to please you - it's not like you're asking her to tie you up and shove gerbils up your ass - it's just a blowjob.
Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
in my opinion a girl really needs to be turned on to suck cock... I mean, look at it, lol..... so if the sex isnt satisfactory to you then maybe it isnt to her as well..... also, as a side note, its not very attractve to a girl having a guy who "desperatly" licks her pussy for a whole hour only to recieve head himself.... desperation isnt a turn on..... try finding a girl who really wants it as part if the sexual act and doesn't act so stuck up......
Dandilion / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Im a girl, and I really enjoy giving it to my boyfriend. I'm actually a pretty modest and I don't like even like PDAs but I like everything about going down on my guy lol. I even like thinking up new ways to please him. So yea I feel sorry for guys who complain that their girlfriends don't like giving and I couldn't imagine why they don't like it! I don't have to be really turned on to want to do it BUT I do always have to be really into the guy.
Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
PDA's? Mmmmm, anyway, I guess that's what I meant. I mean.... I love pussy so its nice to have a girl who likes cock, in any capacity.....
Needs_it_bad / Woman / Likes Men / Single
all i can say is your gf is selfish..
Brent / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Use a metal bat
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