Sometimes your habits will surprise your boyfriend – in a bad way. Habits that you don't think twice about will do nothing short of freaking your boyfriend out! Although some of these habits seem "natural" just try to put yourself in the the audience's (your boyfriend's) point of view and perhaps you will see why they seem gross. If you're not sure if something that you do will freak him out then take a look at this list and take further precaution!
Moving Too Fast
No matter how wonderful and perfect your boyfriend may seem, moving too fast will freak him out! Even if you have planned your wedding and named your unborn children in your head, do not share it with him. In fact, when you first get together talking about the future in any capacity is risky for your relationship. Men like to live in the "now," so talking about what the two of you are going to do in two-years from now is going to make him nervous, and he will most likely become distant. Embrace your relationship, take it day-by-day, and enjoy the "here and now."
Getting Too Comfortable
It is natural to become more comfortable with your significant other as times goes on but you should never get too comfortable. There are certain habits that he never has to see you do – i.e. going to the bathroom, shaving your armpits, popping a pimple, getting a lip wax, tweezing stray chin hair, etc. No matter how beautiful you are to your boyfriend there are certain habits that can diminish your sex appeal. Unfortunately, no matter how long you have been together your boyfriend will not become immune to disgusting habits.
Acting Too Jealous
It's good to show your man that you don't want to share him but it's not good to make him think that you're crazy. Don't get on his case if he spends some time with a female friend or coworker. If you have reason to suspect that your man is being unfaithful then you can take action but otherwise he is just going to think that you're possessive. If you try to prevent him from going out to certain places or hanging out with certain people then he's going to feel like you're smothering him. Don't get suspicious every time he talks to another woman or he looks at another woman. Even more importantly, don't look through his cell phone or his e-mail – this is a serious relationship-offense and an invasion of privacy.
Showing Your Dark Side
Naturally your boyfriend is going to see you get angry but there is a difference between anger and downright evilness. Telling him about horrible things that you have done to ex boyfriends to get revenge on them or what you'd like to do to his ex girlfriend will only freak him out. Telling him about how you have been unfaithful to past boyfriends is also a bad idea; after all, if you cheated on them then what will keep you from cheating on him? Basically, keep the fact that you used to drive past your boyfriend's house at night or call him and hang up just to hear his voice – to yourself.
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