As much as all women would like to believe that men want sex 24/7, the fact is that a lot of them don’t. Sure, most men do think about sex a lot, but there are still those who lose their sex drive like women do. Male emotions fluctuate just as much as women emotions do, so trying to date a man without a sex drive can be a bit of a challenge. This article is here to help you out.
Find out the cause of the lacking sex drive
The only way that you will ever solve this problem is by figuring out what sparked it. Chances are you guys stopped having sex because things got boring. Think about how often or not often you used to experiment in the bedroom. Did you ever do anything new? Probably not. Most couples get into a routine of sorts, where they go through the same motions every single night. Men don’t like this monotony. Your man may also be feeling insecure because maybe he has gained weight or has recently developed acne or burns. It is also possible that he is genuinely lacking testosterone. We will address all three below.
If things got boring…
Make them interesting! I can’t stress this enough. You have to make your time in the bedroom fun, exciting, new, tasty, naughty, slutty, and everything else. You can not just say “Hey a 69 works” and then use that as your only position. Add new costumes. Add new toys. Add new positions. Add new fetishes. ADD NEW PEOPLE! If you make the sex you have more enjoyable and entertaining, he’s going to want to come back again and again (or should I say cum again and again…).
If he’s insecure…
Tell him he’s amazing. You have to make your man genuinely believe that you love, adore and want him. If it helps him, point out your faults that he looks over and ask him why he thinks you wouldn’t do the same. Tell him he’s sexy. Tell him he’s a good provider. Just let him know that you need and want him. The praise will go a long way for his…um…”ego”.
If there’s a medical problem…
Consult with a doctor. They will likely prescribe some sort of testosterone pill or gel to get on a regimen with. In time this should help get his libido back. If not, try the prescription in conjunction with the experiments mentioned earlier to maybe get his mind thinking of hot sex. It’ll be way easier to actually have hot sex that way.
Final thoughts on men losing their sex drive…
The best thing you can do is keep your love life on a constantly changing basis if you want to avoid problems. The willingness to try new things is a major turn on for a lot of guys, so show your man you’re willing before it gets too late. Don’t let him lose the drive. Put the peddle to the metal until you floor him.
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