I'm 22 years old and a virgin but my boyfriend isn't. We tried having sex last night. The foreplay was amazing and he got me really wet but when he tried to penetrate me it was like there was something blocking him from going in. And it really hurt. We tried a few different positions. Is there something wrong with me?
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Badass69 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
well mimi the thing that hurt was your hymen. its a part of your vagina that is sort of like a virginity passage. you break it the first time you have sex. after that then its just smooth sailing but it will hurt the first time so i recommend that you get on top and break your hymen at your own pace cause afterwards youll be able to fuck and not be stopped by the pain. your truly, badass69
Mimi / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Thanks for the reply, badass69
I knew that it was gonna hurt, but he couldn't even get inside me. He managed to get 2 fingers in and said that I was really tight, but couldn't get his penis in.
Badass69 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
well thats just natural that your really tight mimi. there are things you can do to help loosen up like let him finger you more often and possibly 3 finger maybe, that will help to loosen you up
yours truly,badass69
Ifeelcrazy123 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Nothing is wrong. First time can really hurt a lot. Mine was so painful that we couldn't the first time and had to use extra lube (a lot) the next time we tried. I suggest also trying (take it very slowly) being on top. That way you can let him go in at the speed you are comfortable in.
Another thing. Don't worry if you don't get him in completely the first time and have to stop.Third time was lucky for me.
Mimi / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Thanks for the replies everyone.
Feeling a bit better about it all now that I know theres nothing wrong with what I felt. Not that it really matters at the moment, seeing as I've npot heard anything from him since the other night. Not even replying to my texts.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
No worries Mimi...you were just having a tough time for your first sexual experience. This is common. Try to masturbate on your own to relieve the shock, tension, and pain, and then your man will have easy access into your personal zones.
Tinkerbell / Woman / Likes Men / Single
hi mimi- thought id share my views....when i first started to have sex with my boyfriend it was too painful and we had to stop (on several occassions) but one night i said to him i wanted to guide his penis in me...so i placed it in slowly myself, wriggling it into the right place and he slowly pushed down and after that it didnt hurt anymore and was enjoyable
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