Do you feel like you and your partner may be in a sexual rut? Or maybe you’re just curious about what makes a great sex life. Well, whatever your situation, here are the key components needed for that awesome sex life you have always desired.
Passion
Men and women alike need to feel the passion, the raw emotion that comes with those incredible sexual experiences. But to keep the passion, you must be willing to put out the effort. First, start foreplay earlier. Foreplay can be a number of things, from extended, passionate kissing to just spending quality time doing something together. Whatever, you do make sure that you are connecting on a more intimate level. Also, explore each others bodies. Take your time with this. The new sensation of this experience can bring the passion to a whole new level.
Spontaneity
There is nothing that can turn you on more than taking sex out of the bedroom and into other areas. However, be careful that you are not treading into exhibitionism as this can lead to jail time and embarrassment. There is no rule that says that you have to have sex at 6:00pm on Thursdays. So, change it up. Surprise your man when he comes home from work with a passionate romp. Also, don’t be afraid of new positions or trying out a new toy. This may be awkward at first, but give it an honest try. You may just like it.
Openness
Be open to talking about your wants and fantasies as well as your partners. Talk to each other. Ask questions and get the details. Not only can this be an incredible aphrodisiac, but talking to each other opens up the “Pandora’s Box” of possibilities. Also, remember when it comes to fantasies, within reason and with respect for your relationship, anything goes. Experience these new things together and be honest with each about your desires.
Commitment
For many women, the true commitment of a man can be enough to make them want to satisfy their partner in any way possible. Also, establishing that element of stability and trust in each other takes your sex life to a whole new level, thus creating the ultimate situation for a phenomenal sexual experience.
Responsibility
Practicing safe or responsible sex is the also a key to a happy sex life. There are enough stressors in the world without adding sex to the list. So, be responsible about the sex you do have. Knowing that you are prepared for the occasion, should it arise, can also create the element of excitement. For example, letting your partner know that you are “prepared” discretely over dinner can evoke thoughts of desire. So, make sure that whatever the situation, you take that extra step. This also shows that you love and respect your partner enough to make sure they stay healthy. That is sexy. Overall, every relationship goes through its sexual ups and downs. Just stick with it and don’t be afraid to spice it up if necessary.
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