5 Things You Should Never Tell Your Girlfriend

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It is important to be honest with your girlfriend but some things are just better left unsaid.  She does not need to know every thought that runs through your mind.  If you want to keep your girlfriend happy and your relationship in tact, keep the following thoughts to yourself.
“Let’s Go On a Diet Together”
You might think that this is a slick way of trying to get her to lose some weight, but it isn’t slick at all.  She will immediately become defensive and respond with, “Do you think I’m fat?  Do you think I need to lose weight?”  She isn’t stupid and she is going to know that suggesting that you do this together is an indirect way to tell her that she needs to change herself.  Unless you want your girl to feel insecure and bad about herself, don’t suggest that she lose weight.
“Calm Down,” “You’re Being Emotional,” or “Stop PMSing”
When your woman is angry about something she does not want to hear those words of wisdom from you.  Telling her to calm down will most likely cause her to get even angrier.  Likewise, if you have done something to make her angry don’t try to blame it on her being emotional or her PMSing.  Not only does this seem like you’re trying to take the blame off yourself and put it on her, but it is also just annoying.  It is guaranteed that you will never end a fight if you use any of those sentences.
You Find One Of Her Girlfriends Sexy
Whether you really find one of her friends sexy or you are just messing around with her, don’t go there.  She will not think it is funny and it will make her uncomfortable.  She won’t want to bring you around that friend anymore, and she won’t want to introduce you to her other girlfriends in the future.  It might even cause her to distance herself from that friend because she might convince herself that her friend did something to make you think that.  Not only will it make your girl angry but it will hurt her feelings and make her think that you’re checking out her friends. 
That She’s Acting Like Your Ex
Even if she does something crazy that reminds you of your ex, the repercussions of this statement are most likely far worse than what she is doing.  Think about how you would feel if she compared you to her ex boyfriend, who she clearly no longer wanted to be with (or he wouldn’t be her ex).  Not to mention, even if it’s something negative, she doesn’t want to hear you talk about your ex because that means that she’s on your mind.  If you feel like these words are going to slip out then bite your tongue.
That You Check Out Other Girls When She’s Not Around
You might think that your girl is secure and cool, but she isn’t going to be cool about this.  She most likely knows that you look at other girls (just because you’re happily in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re blind).  However, she still does not want to hear about it.  You will make her feel insecure and like she has something to worry about when she’s not around.  She will also become suspicious of your friends and think that they are egging on this negative behavior. 

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