6 things good men must remember about good women

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Weclome to the 21st century ladies and gentlemen...err, scratch that. I keep forgetting that there are no such thing as "ladies" and "gentlemen".

There is a lot of hype on how relationships must be, or what's expected from the man or the woman. In today's world, it seems that "ladies" and "gentlemen" have turning into "sluts" and "a-hole pricks", and that's accepted in today's society. Being the chivalry type, in today's world, puts me on the back burner for boyfriend choice when it comes to women, and I'm sure many men out there feel the same way. So what do guys do? They play the "Alpha Male" protocol, where if you don't have a large dick, tons of cash, huge muscles, fancy tech, or enticing words, you're out of luck. Let me start out with that's just bull.

1. First off, men should remember that we, as humans, are not some primitive species where the big dog wins everything. As a culturally diverse society, each and everyone of us have our own goals, morals, ethnics, and preferences in life. So if you find that hot blonde chick down the road always going for the loser jocks with no future, remember that the next blonde is most likely the exact opposite and could be your potential girlfriend. So the FIRST thing to remember about women is that they are entirely different from each other. They may flock together like they do when they shop or use the restroom, but that's only because of the gender relation.

2. Your good girls are hard to find. Period. Take it from me the easier it is to hook up with a girl, the more slutty and ungrounded she is. More than likely that hot girl that's waving you down at the bar has slept with half of the bar in the last month, and she's looking for fresh meat, no pun intended. The good girls are down to earth, with goals and morals steering them. While the bar chick is well known for drinking bloody marys, that good girl is probably taking a night class, working, or most likely, sleeping. That is not to say you might not hook up with a good girl once in awhile, it is very likely you might meet a good girl during a night out, just don't expect it all the time. You want a good girl, be patient, look hard, and ignore quick one nighters.

3. With the good girl tips being said, it's good to also remember that in the long run, those good girls won't care about your smooth talk, your big muscles, or impressive skills to show off. Most women, usually around the age of 25 or older, start to think about future goals: careers, raising children, and overall normal life within a steady paycheck. You going to the bar every night, or trying to impress girls with big biceps aren't going to work later on in life. That is not to say it is a bad things to have those, and some men may enjoy the thrill of a single life hitting up the hot chicks at the bar because of looks. But don't expect said good girls to coming running to you because you can lift one of them in each arm. That isn't going to land you a good paying job.

4. Going back to younger years, it's also important to remember the difference in maturity when it comes to women. It's common knowledge that women tend to mature faster than men in the teen years. But that is mostly in the physical sense, not so much in the mental sense. That is not to say there aren't very smart and mature women at the age of 17 or 18, but again, don't expect to find them so easily. remember tip number two? good girls(down to earth girls) are the hardest to spot? same thing when it comes to maturity. Those good young mature girls? what do you think they are doing? Working, going to school, planning, and overall keeping themselves occupied with the part of life. Your party goers could also be mature, but if your going to a beach party to get wasted, then chances are your not too mature either. Having fun is not against the laws of nature, just don't expect those mature young girls to be looking at you as a potential soul mate while you chug a keg upside down, and vice versa when it comes to men looking for mature young women.

5. Girls are sensitive. This is a given, and if your 16 or older and don't know this, then all of your friends, parents, and teachers have failed you. As men, it is our instinctive job to protect our women. We are the shielded ones when it comes to life. Since women are supposed to be our opposites, they are VERY sensitive to everything. There are hardened women out there, don't get me wrong, but they are usually hardened for a reason. Nevertheless, keep in mind of what you say and do for women, and around women. You may say negative or mean things to one woman, but women spread news like wildfire, and I guarantee you that good girl that you want to entice notices your bad behavior, and it will go a long way on how your chances with that woman will be. So you want that nice loving, smart, mature girl? Well guess what you have to do: Match her profile. Women are forgiving, but not forgetful, so every time you treat a woman badly puts a black mark on you. Again in the long run, your bad attitude will be your infamy among women.

6. Don't fret if you can find the one that matches you. You may think you're awkward, weird, or not fit to have a girl in your life, but your wrong. More than likely society just steered in the wrong direction, and being chivalrous and down to earth is considered a minority right now. Remember what true good women are and do, and BE PATIENT! That woman of your dreams? She's somewhere, also looking for you. The trick is that she's more patient than you are. Girls, just as guys, want to be with someone very badly throughout their lives. Just keep your head high, treat women right, and she'll come when you least expect it. So be prepared.

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