Whether you’re getting into a relationship for the first time or trying to keep up one that you already have, it’s easy to get off track sometimes. It’s not always easy to know what to do and when to do it, but here are some of the basic do’s and don’ts that go on in relationships that you can refer to in times of need:
DO: Give your partner time
Relationships are like advertisements. They require time and space, but this time you don’t expect to be paid. Giving your time to your partner primarily shows that he/she is your priority, not just an accessory or someone to show off to friends. Giving time means staying in touch and being there when your partner needs you – or even the times that they don’t expect for you to show up. It shows that what you feel is real and that your partner is important to you.
DO: Stay sensitive to another person’s needs
Sensitivity – YES, I can say that we are all guilty of being insensitive at times. Doing things that we like all the time and not noticing that our partner is getting irritated by it – that’s one relationship spoiler. Be sensitive to what your partner wants and needs. Sometimes – or maybe all the time – is just you to know for yourself when to stop or just be cautious to what you’re doing. You might be hurting them in a way.
DO: Keep up communication
Communication – they say it’s a two-way process. If something’s wrong, let them know. If there’s something you don’t like on what they do – just talk it over. Not just ignoring things, being silent and keeping it inside. Let them know what you feel about something, it may end up worst when you just snap and for sure it will end in one big argument or a break up. Being honest with your feelings also fall under this aspect – as letting them know how you feel also communicates to them, but it’s “heart to heart.”
DO: Show your partner you care
Make them feel loved, as actions speak louder than words. There’s nothing worse than having a human stone sculpture for a partner – no one would want that. Show them that you love them, saying I love you or I miss you isn’t enough. Love them and miss them literally. Show that you’re human – unless you’re not sure yourself. Respect your partner for what they are, what they were, and what will they be. Love is about accepting your partner as they are. If you don’t, take a reality check.
DON’T: Cheat in a relationship
Infidelity is a big issue nowadays and it causes a lot of breakups. Whether you do this at the bar when you go out, or in the office – even when you’re with your partner – it‘s all considered cheating. If you’re a hottie and you just can’t help but enjoy the attention you’re getting – you don’t need to hurt your partner, just end the relationship if you’re being selfish and can’t help but flirt.
DON’T: Forget to fix problems
Unresolved conflicts or issues won’t make the relationship healthy. Did you go to bed without talking about an issue? Issues will pile up and both of you will lash it out if there’s an argument. That will put a dent in your relationship. As mentioned previously, you have to maintain communication at all times for the relationship to work.
DON’T: Show your partner disrespect
Disrespect – whether it’s physical (beating your partner up), verbal, even sexual – will put your relationship down the drain. Your partner will get tired from it and will leave you in no time. He/she might endure it for a while but there’s always an end to everything. So don’t ever show disrespect to your partner. Give them the same amount of respect that you expect from them.
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