Let’s be honest, sex over the last even 20 years has changed. Where there were once things that were never talked about, we now do. This can also include adding toys to your relationship. For most, the thought of a sex toy means solo sex, but this is an entirely wrong concept. There are many couples that for whatever reason have begun utilizing several of the following toys.
Positional Toys
Although wedges and other positional gear may not be considered a toy, they can be used in just the same way as a toy. The purpose these being to comfortably allow for different positions and thus different levels of pleasure. For those of you who environmentally aware, there are even companies who provide green positional wedges and other gear. The Liberator Esse is an affordable and green positional chair for any occasion.
Tongue and Mouth Accessories
Depending on your romantic boundaries, this particular type of toy may be right up your alley. There are several different brands of tongue vibrators, including Tongue Joy, Tongue Dinger and Tongue Teaser. All of these are to be used in your mouth for the enhanced pleasure of your partner. Some are multi-use, while others are single use, for whatever your style.
Lingerie and Role Play Accessories
With everything from a sexy nurse’s outfit to pasties, you and your partner will be sure to put the fun back into your romance. Role playing pieces are mean to give you the illusion of something outside of your normal life. They are also be of help in spicing up a relationship that is in a sexual funk or adding a new level of spark to a new one.
Personal Body Gear
The purpose here is to enhance pleasure while lengthening the duration. The Innervibe and Wittle Wabbit are great gear for any sexual toy box. Also, the Sidekick and Ergorings are a great value for your recreational buck. This also a Tie-Ur-Own Ring on the market for those of you that can never find the right size.
Lubricants
No night of passion is complete without a couple of lubricants or massage oils thrown in there. Fruity Lube and Wet Flavored Body Glide are tasty, edible and sugar free. You should also keep in mind, edible panties as well as flavored condoms and dental dams just for fun.
Final thoughts…
Finally, the purpose of the toy is to play. There is absolutely nothing wrong with helping you significant other get to greater pleasure highs, even with the use of toys. That said, you should only do what is comfortable for both of you. Also, purchasing an additional prop for the bedroom might be the only shopping trip you both enjoy. You should however make sure the two of you discuss what kinds of thing you want to play with and how far you are willing to go with your pleasure seeking.Lastly, be open and honest with your partner about your desires as well as open-minded to his/hers and of course, HAVE FUN!
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