There are a lot of theories that float around about sex, but for the most part they aren’t true. Someone spreads a simple rumor and the next thing you know you have a false-sex info epidemic. Below are a few myths about se that you may be interested in finding out the truth about.
Sex dies with age
This is not true. It is completely normal for the sex to die off as the ‘heat dies down’ in a marriage. When you first get with someone, whether you are married or not, it’s going to be lots of hot sweaty sex, but as time goes on, there will be a dry spell. This doesn’t necessary means it’s because you’re old. It means there is too much of a routine to it all. You know each other well enough to know how to get the job done, so it’s time to acquaint yourselves with each other in new ways. If you’ve got a heartbeat and can still get it up, you’re never too old!
Extra orgasms will help conceive a child
The idea that the vaginal contractions during an orgasm helps give the little swimmers a little extra travel speed is completely a myth. This is why they are called ‘swimmers’. They were built to get their on their own. Have sex as you would, no extra work needed.
Women give up sex after menopause
Whoever thought this one up needs to be shot. This is the farthest thing from the truth. Women will take a break with all the physical and emotional trips she’ll be taking, but afterwards, there will be plenty of wild, crazy, worry free sex. She will be rediscovering herself in new ways, and that can only mean: sex, sex, sex!
Having same sex fantasies means I am bisexual
Again, this is completely false. So you had a dream that you went through and burned your cheating ex’s house down. Does that mean you’re a pyromaniac too? Fantasizing is normal. Fantasies are an indulgence of our imaginations. Nothing more. Relax and think away.
Men are ready for sex anywhere, anytime
Sure, every now and then one wink from across the table at a crowded diner will cause him to start shoving stuff off the table and prepare for a greasy ride. But overall, this is a myth. There is a need for emotional attachment, especially as a man gets older. This makes for more passionate sex. A man’s emotional health is also a huge factor in his need for sex, as is how he feels about his lover, how work is going, etc. Life does play part in this. You can help him relax and get it on where you want, on your time.
Men prefer the hunt over the capture
is really kind of silly. What man doesn’t want an ego boost from some young hot thing coming on to him, showing him they NEED him? This can be huge turn on, and yes men love to be the object of YOUR affection. This helps lessen the stress of rejection as well.
Women don’t like sex like men do
Last time I checked it does take two to tango (at least the right way) so.. Somewhere along the line this got mixed up. Women enjoy sex, and often talk about sex as much as if not more than men.
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