My girlfriend and I are both completely different. She's from a strict Christian background and her family is very protective of her. She goes to church 2 times a week and volunteers in the Christian community whenever possible. She isn't completely strict about her Christianity. For one, we've been having sex like crazy! She's probably the best sexual partner I've ever had. We experiment all of the time with different things, like massages and sexual games. What makes this all sort of weird is that I'm an Atheist. My parents are pretty liberal; they are open to other people's religions and beliefs. So, I know it won't be an issue taking her home to them. But, if my girlfriend introduced me to her parents, they would have a hard time liking me. We also have various degrees of differences, so we end up arguing and having heated debates most of the time. But, the sex completely balances everything. And it's driving us insane! Can a Christian and an Atheist enjoy their sex life? Is it because we're such opposites that makes the sex so good?
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Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I think you already answered your own question—yes! It seems like you two have wonderful sexual chemistry. Whether or not you can continue and have a long and meaningful relationship is up to you, and how you are able to reconcile your differences in upbringing and religion. I am not sure if you two are so great in bed together because you come from different walks of life, or just because you happen to be great together, but it doesn’t matter why—just enjoy! Your bedroom life sounds wonderful—balanced, adventurous, and intense! It might be time to just sit back and have fun, while you save the work and discussion for the other part of your relationship. Take the same openness you have in your sex life and apply it to other parts of your relationship, and hopefully you will begin to figure some things out for your future.
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