this may not be something asked a lot, but my girlfriend always cums before me. in fact, the last time we had sex, i did not cum at all, despite our best efforts. she is an extremely attractive girl and she gets me very horny, but i just dont cum very quickly. how can i fix/improve this? btw she doesn't give oral sex and is not very good at hand jobs.
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Thor / 47 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Same thing happens to me basically.
Some men cannot come with just vaginal stimulation. It sometimes requires oral or hand stimulation to get off.
I look upon it as a positive really, because I can spend time getting her off.
However, the downside is she does not like hand jobs nor oral. You need to talk to her about at least hand-jobs.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
For one, it sounds like this girl needs to step up her game a bit. No blow jobs and shitty hand jobs? AND she can't make you cum. Ya, you might want to reconsider some things about your relationship. Assuming you stay together though, I'd try masturbating less often so your penis is more sensitive to the stimulation. You might need more than that though. You really need to talk to her about blow jobs because unless she's totally crappy at them, you should get off there. Otherwise, it might just mean that you have to do things yourself. That sucks, but it's all you really have left.
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