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When I'm with my girlfriend I can not get hard.I am thinking of taking pills to get my dick hard.Do pills(not including viagra)really get your dick hard and stay hard during sexual intercourse?
Mike, don't start taking any sort of pills for this without seeing a doctor and taking them under a doctor's care. There is too much crap out there, most will just use up your money to no effect, and some may do you some harm. I know you would probably be embarrased to talk to a doctor about this, but, all joking aside, if this is still a big problem for you, please see a doctor. Go to the campus clinic at least. You have a long life ahead of you and you will want to use your dick during that life. Don't make stupid choices about your dick this early in your life.
Pills can help you stay hard. They can't get you bigger, but they can improve the blood flow down there which in turn helps your erection remain firm and lasting.
(I posted this in your other question, but I'll add it here in case you miss the other one.)
Mike, then we get back to nerves. What is the difference, in how you feel, when you are with your girl and when you are masturbating? You are not worried about performing when you are by yourself, right? Are you worried about what she thinks?
Try this, if you can. The next time you have an opportunity, tell your girlfriend that it's ladies night. This means that this is her night, all the focus is on her. Your job is to do everything in your power to give her the best orgasm you can.
The one thing you cannot do is put your penis inside her, and you are not to cum. In fact, you are to keep your pants on the entire time. Shirt off, shoes and socks off, OK, but keep your pants on. So, you are to use your tounge and fingers on her, toys, her vibrator, whatever. Massage, tickle, rub, stroke, kiss, lick... You are to focus on her. Learn about her responses and how she responds to your attention. Pay attention to her breathing. Pay attention to the sounds she makes. Pay attention to her body, how she moves and her quivering flesh. Learn what things you do to her, and how she responds to what you do. Learn what feels good to her. It's all about her and her pleasure.
It may take several hours, don't rush it. You cannot put your penis inside her, and you are not to cum at all. keep your pants on.
It may take several tries over several nights. Maybe even longer than that. She shouldn't fake it, to get you off the hook. You are to stay on the hook until you can successfully get her to (a real) orgasm.
When you can do this successfuly, and she has a mindblowing orgasm, come back here and we'll talk about the next step.
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Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Mike, don't start taking any sort of pills for this without seeing a doctor and taking them under a doctor's care. There is too much crap out there, most will just use up your money to no effect, and some may do you some harm. I know you would probably be embarrased to talk to a doctor about this, but, all joking aside, if this is still a big problem for you, please see a doctor. Go to the campus clinic at least. You have a long life ahead of you and you will want to use your dick during that life. Don't make stupid choices about your dick this early in your life.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Pills can help you stay hard. They can't get you bigger, but they can improve the blood flow down there which in turn helps your erection remain firm and lasting.
Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
(I posted this in your other question, but I'll add it here in case you miss the other one.)
Mike, then we get back to nerves. What is the difference, in how you feel, when you are with your girl and when you are masturbating? You are not worried about performing when you are by yourself, right? Are you worried about what she thinks?
Try this, if you can. The next time you have an opportunity, tell your girlfriend that it's ladies night. This means that this is her night, all the focus is on her. Your job is to do everything in your power to give her the best orgasm you can.
The one thing you cannot do is put your penis inside her, and you are not to cum. In fact, you are to keep your pants on the entire time. Shirt off, shoes and socks off, OK, but keep your pants on. So, you are to use your tounge and fingers on her, toys, her vibrator, whatever. Massage, tickle, rub, stroke, kiss, lick... You are to focus on her. Learn about her responses and how she responds to your attention. Pay attention to her breathing. Pay attention to the sounds she makes. Pay attention to her body, how she moves and her quivering flesh. Learn what things you do to her, and how she responds to what you do. Learn what feels good to her. It's all about her and her pleasure.
It may take several hours, don't rush it. You cannot put your penis inside her, and you are not to cum at all. keep your pants on.
It may take several tries over several nights. Maybe even longer than that. She shouldn't fake it, to get you off the hook. You are to stay on the hook until you can successfully get her to (a real) orgasm.
When you can do this successfuly, and she has a mindblowing orgasm, come back here and we'll talk about the next step.
Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Mike? How are you getting along?
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