Do They Really Get Better with Age?

I'm 20 and still in college. I've been dating for a few months now and the guys my age that I date are so immature and obnoxious. 99% of the boys I've dated are around my age, the youngest was 18 and the oldest was 24. 99% of those guys all got on my nerves in less than seven hours. The sex wasn't even that great most of the time. Even when I tell them what pleases me, they keep going at it like machines. Now, I'm thinking that I should date older guys. But, I've never dated an older man before. Some of my friends told me that older men are less energetic and usually treat younger women and they get boring with age. But, I doubt that's the case. What should I expect when dating an older man?

IN a word, yes! Well…sometimes. In all seriousness, there is something to be said for age making everything—including sex—better. The older you are, the wiser. You have had more time to loosen up, learn about yourself, and learn how to pleasure someone else. When it comes right down to it, age is only a number; finding someone you are compatible with is much more important, despite their age. You might date an 18 year old who is more mature than any 30 year old you find. If you are looking for someone older, sure, go ahead and try it! As for older men having less energy, that might be true for some men, but how much older than you are you looking to date? I have had sex with someone twenty years older and found them much more energetic and sexually satisfying than someone my own age. However, I have also dated and slept with people younger than me who have been amazing in the sack. That said, take age out of the equation. Focus on finding some, regardless of age, who ‘gets’ you, someone who shares common interests. If you have great chemistry outside the bedroom, it is more likely to translate to great fun inside the bedroom as well!