Most men appreciate sluts, but they don’t marry them! So we are faced with two questions: What do you want to be? And for that matter, what does your man want you to be? Most men live by the old adage, a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom. So, where does your man fall in this category? This is where your listening and observation skills come into play. Here are some tips that may help you figure out if he wants a slut or a good girl for a partner:
You can be true to yourself
Now first off, don’t worry about having to change who you are or how you act. If you are interested in determining what type of woman your man is seeking and whether you fill the bill in that arena then read on. There are men out there that dump the most committed of wives, mothers of their children, etc, for generally a younger woman just because she is willing to do things behind closed doors that his wife is not. They leave with women who sit on the pool table coming on to them, acting slutty. Whether this woman will end up being a threat to a marriage is questionable, but obviously she is addressing a need that his partner is not. So again, be true to yourself, but remember this is an area where you may need to be open minded, and you might be very happy you were.
A few questions to ask yourself
What type of woman does your man most look at and comment on? Does his eye follow the girls in the tanks, with breasts spilling out the top and butt cleavage? Or does he seem more curious as to what is under a woman’s suit? What do you wear when you receive his highest compliments, and what does he ask you to wear? These may be good indicators of what he likes, but they aren’t always helpful. Men fantasize…it’s just what they do. You have to let him have that. He may like to look at sluts, but that doesn’t mean anything more to him than a quickie in his mind. Use your judgment to see how far his slut lust goes.
See how committed he is
If your man does nothing but talk about marriage and a committed relationship, then he’s looking for a good girl. The sex driven one-night-stand kind of guys are the ones looking for sluts. See which one he talks about more - sex or commitment. That’ll be a big indication of what he wants.
Think about his upbringing
Another way to tell what he likes is by thinking about how he was raised. For instance, a preacher’s son will most likely want a good girl (but not always). You can actually use his past to gauge what he wants. Think about his past relationship too. Were they all sluts or good girls? Chances are he’ll follow the same path from girl to girl, though there is a chance he’s looking for a change of pace. That can only be determined with time though.
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Tongueman / 56 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Why do women always insist on believing men want either a "slut" or a "good girl?"
As best that I can tell every male wants a female able to be both at the right times for him. You even made reference to that when you stated the old adage, "a lady in the parlor and a whore in the bedroom." Most men want their lady to be the model "good girl" at the appropriate times for that behavior for them while they wish for their sex partner to be their perfect match sexually. While men are not likely to want to view their lady as a whore in the bedroom this truly is what most men want her to be able to perform like sexually!
Men want to be proud of the way their lady is able to switch between both when the timing is right while still being able to have the public "good girl reputation" in the eyes of people that never she her perform her sexual magic with him.
This means that men do not want their partner to be one or the other. Men want both from the perfect female for them!
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