Much has been made of the scientific fact that women require more foreplay than men, and there’s certainly more than a grain of truth to that. But it’s equally true that great foreplay can make for even greater intercourse for both men and women, and who isn’t interested in spectacular sex? Here are five great foreplay methods that will enhance both your technique and your pleasure.
Fore-Foreplay
Sex is just as much a cerebral experience as it is a physical one, what with all the synapses and neurons firing and the flood of chemicals released in the brain. Foreplay can therefore begin even better if you’re in the same room. Increase your partner’s anticipation for impending intercourse by setting the stage. This can range from a sticky note stuck on a file in his briefcase to a trail of rose petals leading from the doorway to her side of the bed. Fostering mental anticipation in this way can make the promise of physical pleasure even more enticing.
Kissing
This might seem like a no-brainer, but so often people who have been in a relationship for awhile forget how passionate and pleasant the simple act of pressing their lips together can be. Of course, kissing doesn’t have to be for lips only, so let your mouth explore all of your partner’s body. Few things are as sensual as the steam of your breath on your lover’s skin as you explore the salty and sweaty body splayed before you.
Touching and Massage
The tactile element of sex should extend far beyond simple penetration. Skin on skin promotes foreplay even further, and massage is a great way to explore your partner’s body as well. One tip commonly given for people who giving sensual massages is to always have at least one part of your body touching the body of your partner. This process creates a consistent connection that increases arousal the longer it remains unbroken. Remember also to roam the entire body, which will further prolong foreplay.
Toys
Introducing toys into the bedroom can be a fantastic way of improving foreplay. Although people often think of sex toys in terms of being used for solo or mutual masturbation to reach orgasm, they’re also exciting tools that can be used in the process of foreplay. Vibrators with adjustable speeds are particularly popular for foreplay since the rate of vibration can be sped up or slowed down, thereby allowing you and your partner to prolong arousal and postpone full gratification.
And everyone’s favorite…Porn
Watching porn together is a great form of foreplay. As mentioned before, the human brain processes sex just as much as the human body. People are very visual, and the sight of other people engaged in sexual acts can be very stimulating. People often think of porn as something to be enjoyed alone when a partner isn’t available and/or as a masturbation aid, but pornography can also be enjoyed by couples as part of the foreplay experience. Consider choosing a movie or other form of porn together that will appeal to both your tastes.
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