My boyfriend and I recently moved into an apartment building, which is a big change for us because we used to own a house together down south. Since we're new here, we threw a small house-warming party and invited a few of our neighbors down for drinks. We end up speaking to another couple who lives two floors below us. We hung out with them the entire night, and eventually we all became friends. Sometimes we would go out to the local bar for a drink or plan a day away in their home near the beach. Then, one night, while we were spending the night at their house, after a few drinks our neighbors started fooling around. Well, my boyfriend and I were pretty surprised, but we didn't interrupt. In fact, we started making out with each other. Then, as the night went on, we all ended up having a foursome. It was really unexpected; I hadn't thought about this couple in a sexual way before. But, the sex was amazing! Now, since then, I've had sex with this couple (with either girlfriend or boyfriend or all three of us together). My boyfriend used to be into it, but not so much anymore. I ask him if there's anything wrong and he just tells me that he lost interest. I know it's something else because now he's become really bitchy to me and feels like I spend more time with them than I do with him. I never really looked at it that way; I just thought this was a really exciting chance for us to try something different. Should I dump the other couple and stick with my boyfriend? I just want us all to get along!
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Try getting rid of the other guy and see if the insecurities fade then.
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