Me and My girlfriend have been dating for almost 2 and a half years. We both are freshmen in college and and we still have not done any type of sex penetration. She has given be hand jobs multiple times and we make out alot which makes me think she IS attracted to me but whenever I bring up the question of putting it in her she just giggles and tells me "not now" or she tries to give me an excuse one after another like "your cock is not going to fit" and "ive never had anything in me before" we are both virgins too and want to lose our virginity to each other. I have touched her vagina a few times but she wouldnt even take off her underwear completely, I had to stick my hand down her pants and she would barely let me fingers in her, I would only manage to touch the outer layer before she would pull my hands out of her underwear. Anyway, one night when she got really aroused she said "If i had my tubes tied I would **** you so hard everynight". This is all just really frustrating and confusing and I tend to lash out on her every now and then out of sexual frustration-I'm all up for waiting for her and all but it's been 2 and a half years. It just seems like it will take years before we even progress to any type of sex penetration, I mean she wont even give me oral sex or later me to do it to her. I love her so much but I feel like we need to have sex in order to take that next, intimate step in building our relationship. Should I just continue to wait until she is ready?..which I think will be in another 10 years.
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Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
what's a freshman? (not from US)
Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I used to have a theory where if I had to wait longer than a week to have sex, unless I was busy and I would stretch it out to two or three weeks, then I'd leave and forget about her. But ive changed and its a touching thing to see a guy waiting this long, my past experiences are bad for the soul, no doubt about that. But one must beg the question out of interest, are you guys religous? How young are you guys? Mmmmmmm, anyway, having never been in love I can't advise you on how long to wait.... But the main thing is to find out if she really does love you, otherwise your waiting for nothing. Ive known virgins that were 27 yrs old because of their faith, but even they "fooled around" in one way or another, yours seems like a very special case.... send more info if you can.....
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Figure out the reason behind her sexual hesitance. then try to go up at least slgihtly in the level of activity that you have.
Bigdicky / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Clearly she has no respect for you. You're wasting the best years of your life with a miserable future harpy. You can do better. Be a man and dump her. Fuck her sister, her mother, anything to make her feel bad for the 2 year blue balling that she's given you.
I had a friend, no joke (and no it wasn't me) who went through the same thing, they got married right after they started to fuck and then about a 3 months later he comes home and she's fucking some random dude. Turns out she'd been screwing around the whole time. Life is short, fuck hard.
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