there's nothing you can say...... just smile and nod, maybe make her laugh..... What can a girl say when your team concedes a goal in the last few minutes of a champions league game? Nothing.....
I appreciate the advice. I don't know if you are a boy or girl, but I imagine you are a boy. I think a girl might be able to give a more suitable answer which would probably include something to actually be able to say. But thanks again.
lol... what gave it away? The football comment? Afterall its ask by GF bit ask a guy, true..... But I can add that woman as we know are wonderful yet illogical creatures, and I'd be suprised if any female comment's, leaving sufficient advice. They'll most likely tell you to say something comforting, etc, giving you (and us) no futher insight to the inner workings of their minds, besides, most honestly dont know what they want to hear half the time...... In my my humble opinion its usually best to stay clear......
I don't need to know how their mind works, just what they would want to hear. I love mt girl endlessly and have no problem saying something comforting even if it will make me look less manly if that is what she wants to hear from me.
Ok thank you for that. But to complicate things I am right now away from her, distance wise, so I can't do anything physical for her, unless it was sending her something like flowers. Any ideas what I should say when she tells me she is having a bad period?
Tell her that you can't even begin to imagine what she's going through, but that you'd endure ten times the amount of pain if she could be pain free. Women don't want you to relate, because you can't. Just let her know that you're sorry for her pain and that you'd do anything to help.
Considering you're not with her, you should send her something via mail. Whether it's chocolate, an "I'm thinking of you" card, or some weird present resembling an inside joke, it would be a good look.
She wants you to sympathize, to be supportive, to see that you care. Say stuff that a boyfriend would say, not a friend. Stuff like, "I'm gonna hold you extra tight when you come home," or "think of a great date you want to go on when I see you again." Try to distract her from her pain by fantasizing about being with you. I'm sure you can come up with something. She likes you for a reason, so just be yourself.
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Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
there's nothing you can say...... just smile and nod, maybe make her laugh..... What can a girl say when your team concedes a goal in the last few minutes of a champions league game? Nothing.....
Miketheman / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I appreciate the advice. I don't know if you are a boy or girl, but I imagine you are a boy. I think a girl might be able to give a more suitable answer which would probably include something to actually be able to say. But thanks again.
Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
lol... what gave it away? The football comment? Afterall its ask by GF bit ask a guy, true..... But I can add that woman as we know are wonderful yet illogical creatures, and I'd be suprised if any female comment's, leaving sufficient advice. They'll most likely tell you to say something comforting, etc, giving you (and us) no futher insight to the inner workings of their minds, besides, most honestly dont know what they want to hear half the time...... In my my humble opinion its usually best to stay clear......
Miketheman / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I don't need to know how their mind works, just what they would want to hear. I love mt girl endlessly and have no problem saying something comforting even if it will make me look less manly if that is what she wants to hear from me.
Miketheman / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Ok thank you for that. But to complicate things I am right now away from her, distance wise, so I can't do anything physical for her, unless it was sending her something like flowers. Any ideas what I should say when she tells me she is having a bad period?
Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Tell her that you can't even begin to imagine what she's going through, but that you'd endure ten times the amount of pain if she could be pain free. Women don't want you to relate, because you can't. Just let her know that you're sorry for her pain and that you'd do anything to help.
Considering you're not with her, you should send her something via mail. Whether it's chocolate, an "I'm thinking of you" card, or some weird present resembling an inside joke, it would be a good look.
She wants you to sympathize, to be supportive, to see that you care. Say stuff that a boyfriend would say, not a friend. Stuff like, "I'm gonna hold you extra tight when you come home," or "think of a great date you want to go on when I see you again." Try to distract her from her pain by fantasizing about being with you. I'm sure you can come up with something. She likes you for a reason, so just be yourself.
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