He Wants to Watch us Have Sex on Television.

I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks. He's very cool. And the sex is hot! Just the other day he was telling me that his ultimate turn-on is to videotape us having sex. He said he particularly likes to hook it up to his TV and watch us fucking as we're doing it. I have never done anything this kinky before. I like the sex we're having and I do like him; I just wonder if this particular sex act might be a little much for me. Is there any way I can cope with watching me and my boyfriend having sex on television? Or even being recorded, for that matter?

Watching yourself have sex is a fantasy many people have. Homemade porn often excites people because they can watch it later and remember how turned on and pleasured they felt in the moment. Are you nervous about being taped, or is it the ‘watching yourself’ part that stresses you out? You’ve only been with your boyfriend a short time, so you need to decide if you trust him. If Paris Hilton has taught us anything, it’s that ecording sex eaves a permanent record—one that could be posted to the internet should the relationship sour—so you better be ready to trust your partner with that tape forever. In the meantime, I suggest renting a sexy video and watching it during your bedroom sessions. Ease into his fantasy and see if that satiates him for awhile, giving you time to decide what you want to do.