Heaven is no longer here

JustMe / 28 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single

Maybe not fill Heavens shoes, but a new pair to walk in.... :P
It will never be the same, but we all will be here and remember our Girlfriend :)

Wec4ever / 20 / Man / Likes Transexuals / In a relationship

damn thats crazy. im speechless right now. there will never be another heaven not even close. im very happy to atleast have talk with her. always made me laugh :). we will all miss you girl. muah god bless

Mic / 25 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Kind of lame to delete her post, She seemed to be a open direct person who always speaks her mind, no need to delete that.

Anyway, there's no reason why she would not come back here in the future,
Just give her some time

GG · I think her time here is kinda done i'm afraid. Although we can all be hopeful. Right i'll be honest now, i asked Thor! to delete it because it was a degrading post which was upsetting and humiliating. One which she would never have written herself willingly. So if you have anything else to say direct it at me not Thor! We were her friends and we cared a lot about her and I couldn't let something like that stay up for all eternity. Sorry if i've pissed anyone off but hey, that's just the way i work.

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · I'm just vary sad over the whole thing more than anything. :-(

GG · I can tell. No-one has been around lately.

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · What you said about deleting her post makes more sense to me now.

GG · Good i'm glad. I didn't ask for it to delete Heaven, i did it to protect her and others.

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · Makes sense.

Mic / 25 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Come on, let's be serious now.
Who here does really think that heaven will never ever have a look at this site again, or post something? That's ridiculous.
I cannot even remember that she mentioned something like that in her post (the one that got deleted).
Don't you think she loved to hang out here?

She seems to go through hard times right now, having personal issues and so on.
Well she obviously needs some time for herself, nobody is blaming her for that.

But just about 24 hours!!!!! after her post everybody here's like
"I'll miss her wit, her acerbic humor, her charm, and I'll be hanging up her jersey in the rafters here. (#1 girlfriend on AskMyGirlfriend)."
or
"there will never be another heaven not even close."

are you kidding me???????
IT'S NOT LIKE SHE DIED OR SOMETHING.
Just remember when you had to go through a stroke of fate. You cannot quite make any lasting decisions at that time.

When she'll have another look at this site (and of course she will), I'm sure it would make her happy to read about people telling her that she is loved and welcome back here at any time, rather than
"I think her time here is kinda done i'm afraid."
and thousands of
"we will miss you :((("
or
"I am sooooo sad"
and those
"yeah we respect your reasons for leaving, be gone now"
kind of text...

Again, SHE DID NOT DIE.
Be good friends, offer her support and tell her that you're there for her.

It sounds kind of like some of you think this site is evil and if she blocks it on her computer her marriage will turn out to be great again and... aaaahh. I could go on and on and on, but I better stop that for now.

I didn't mean to sound that harsh, but most of this posts here really make me shake my head. Really. I'm just speaking my honest mind

GG · So you're telling me that you think she would come back here to the detrement of her marriage? Also how do you know Heaven so well? You have only just joined here! We aren't talking like she died we are just not deluding ourselves that this site is bigger than her private life!

GG · We are her friends and she knows how much she will be missed and she also knows how thrilled we would be to have her back here at any given time.

Rob ( Spaminator) · I agree with GG. Dude, she said she won't come back and won't talk to anyone, because it won't help her marriage. She didn't die, but Thor, the owner of this site, btw, needs to hire a replacement, since this site was here before Heaven and will go on. And I do have the sneaking suspicion you are not that new here...

GG · I was thinking the same thing here Rob :-/

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · + 1 @ Rob, GG, Sam

Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

"I'll miss her wit, her acerbic humor, her charm, and I'll be hanging up her jersey in the rafters here. (#1 girlfriend on AskMyGirlfriend)."

Amen.

But why did you delete the post Thor!?

Thor! · It felt like a post under duress to me. I didn't want to make the site an uncomfortable point for Heaven in the future, so I deleted it. I'm sure you understand.

Hell · I think Heaven could decide if she wants the post to be deleted or not and she could always delete the post later herself. Thor! Did you disable Heaven's account and access as well? I bet you that's the case too.

Thor! · Wow, you guys are super insensetive. Nothing has been deleted except that post.

JustMe ( Ice Queen) · Hey. Im sure Thor knows what he's doing. Dont bite his head of. Show some respect.

GG · Hell you have no right to have a go at Thor! It's his site, his way of running things. He did what was necessary for the sake of preserving a good friends dignity! If you look at Heaven's profile it's still there. Also if he had deleted Heaven none of her posts and videos would be here!!

JustMe / 28 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single

Indeed we do! +1 there

JustMe / 28 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single

She had some personal reasons to leave. We will miss her very much :(

JustMe / 28 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single

+2 Rob, GG, Sam
Heaven has moved on, as must the site. Some doesnt understand that even if people arn't dead, its still possible to be sad and miss them....