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posted over 1 year ago
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ize that im a sexual being. I can perform normally but find that women dont see beyond
my disability. What can i do to change this?
my disability. What can i do to change this?
Maybe trying to meet women online. That way you can try to win them over with your personality before they really "see" you much (beyond the pics you use in your profile). I would mention that you are disabled and in a wheelchair (which I think is what you mean) but not saying anything other than that. And I would have your profile pic be of as much of you as possible without showing the wheelchair so the women you try to meet see the wheelchair as little as possible before your personality can win them over. Basically don't try to hide it so you seem deceptive but try to keep the idea out of her mind as much as possible in your dating site profile.
i am disabled (use walkers and wheelchairs) and aggree whole-heartedly w/ the advice andy gives, especially the part about saying ur in a wheelchair (if that's the case) and actually take the time to win them over BEFORE meeting them. that's what's worked for me.
over 1 year ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
also, just how old are you and how old are the women you are trying to attract?
Hey, adrian I'm tanner a.k.a Tbone and I agree 100% with both of you because I also use walkers or wheelchairs also, as a very young guy probably (4-8) then again about (14-present) just because I had broken my left fifth meditarcal in my foot, so I fully agree with both of you 100% like I said earlier about both topics webchating and the wheelchair topic.
over 1 year ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
hey tanner. are you the person who posted originally? yeah, i've found that younger women tend to be more superficial and take wheelchairs and the like as a stupid dealbreaker. right about mid 30's (35ish....) women tend to become less superficial about stuff like that. now, if they happen to have a history in the medical field (like my girl who is an rn), any superficiality is gone much earlier.
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Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
Maybe trying to meet women online. That way you can try to win them over with your personality before they really "see" you much (beyond the pics you use in your profile). I would mention that you are disabled and in a wheelchair (which I think is what you mean) but not saying anything other than that. And I would have your profile pic be of as much of you as possible without showing the wheelchair so the women you try to meet see the wheelchair as little as possible before your personality can win them over. Basically don't try to hide it so you seem deceptive but try to keep the idea out of her mind as much as possible in your dating site profile.
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
i am disabled (use walkers and wheelchairs) and aggree whole-heartedly w/ the advice andy gives, especially the part about saying ur in a wheelchair (if that's the case) and actually take the time to win them over BEFORE meeting them. that's what's worked for me.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · also, just how old are you and how old are the women you are trying to attract?
Tanner / 21 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Hey, adrian I'm tanner a.k.a Tbone and I agree 100% with both of you because I also use walkers or wheelchairs also, as a very young guy probably (4-8) then again about (14-present) just because I had broken my left fifth meditarcal in my foot, so I fully agree with both of you 100% like I said earlier about both topics webchating and the wheelchair topic.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · hey tanner. are you the person who posted originally? yeah, i've found that younger women tend to be more superficial and take wheelchairs and the like as a stupid dealbreaker. right about mid 30's (35ish....) women tend to become less superficial about stuff like that. now, if they happen to have a history in the medical field (like my girl who is an rn), any superficiality is gone much earlier.
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Tbh if a girl/woman cant realise that themselves then they aren't worth bothering with! :-)
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