my girl cuffed me stick a 12inch vibrator up my ass when ask that if i could do anal sex on her, and it was really paifull that i'd cry while she fucks my ass at the same time she giggles and tease the fuck out of me ....knowing how painfull it has been,how can please her to do it..?
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Heavenlyfollower / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Well what she did doesn't really seem right...how old are you guys?
Unless you have a 12 inch penis i really don't think its going to be the same thing for her. What she did was really cruel, and not the same thing. As I said before if she had gotten a vibrator about the true size of your penis then it be more realistic.
You might want to ask if she's into S & M thats what that things seemed like, I personally would question if im in the right realaionship if some one took joy out of being vindictive and hurting me to prove a point, I guarantee its not the same thing.
I explained in detail how to make it hurt the least possible in the other post that you commented on. I think at least for me thats the most I can offer...
Roku / Woman / Likes Men / Single
you mean she was just trying scare me...anyhow we we're just both turned 19 this year,.another thick i have a 9inch penis and also kinda
thick...so do you mean that if the size of the vibrator was equal to mine would that make sense about being real ....about that she only barrowed that stupid vibrator to some of her friends ...the status of our relationship is been quite different to others in relationship she is the one that's dominant even i'm ver muscular but she pleases me nice in many thing despite of being like that .....do you think it's bad for that i always tolarate her of whatever she likes...
Roku / Woman / Likes Men / Single
i meant do you it's bad for us that i always tolerate her for whatever she wants
Heavenlyfollower / Woman / Likes Men / Single
hmm...
I only realized recently that not too many people understand S & M
Try doing some research on "sadism and masochism" (S&M) I think this will help you better understand the situation and be able to help you in this difficult situation
I am no expert but it sounds like your lady is satic and actually enjoyed sodomizing you. If your okay with that, and maybe even enjoyed it I think you two will be fine.
Roku / Woman / Likes Men / Single
well so far that wasn't the first time that she did something nasty to me....and didn't enjoy having me sodomized ....i hug her and cry like a girl after that plus i end up walking funny for a day or two ..and yeah i admit she's a bit sadist kinky and ver exotic hehehe.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I agree with Follower to an extent that she may be sadistic. That doesn't give her an excuse to not forewarn you about it though. The fun part of dominance as a whole is having a willing partner. If you, in this case the submissive one, don't get off on the pain at all and it genuinely hurts you, that's not a good thing. It's abuse. Abuse is far from sexy.
If you don't like pain at all, tell her about it NOW. You said she has done other stuff like this before, and she will only continue to do so until you sit her down and explain that you don't like it at all. I think women who stick around getting beaten by their husbands without doing anything about it are partially to blame for enabling the problem (I say this coming from a house of abuse, so don't think I'm inconsiderate). It's the same with you. She doesn't have a right to hurt you in any way if you don't actually enjoy it, and by letting the problem continue, you are literally allowing her to abuse you. It's not her fault at a certain point.
The overall point of this question though was seemingly about how you can get her to try anal when you know the pain associated with it. For one, I doubt she used lube, which will have a big impact on the pain. Second, I doubt you were relaxed, which will again be a factor. Third, she didn't go in gently. Your experience is nothing like what actual anal is like.
I don't think you'll get this girl to willingly try anal with you. She's too set on the pain. She sounds super stubborn, which could be aftermath from the dominance. I'd strongly consider the relationship in general if I were you and whether you want to live like this the rest of your life. You're 19...you have plenty of fucking time to find someone else. I'm 21 and even I know that...haha.
I wish you luck man. Stand up for yourself unless you like being the submissive type. If you do, don't complain about the pain :) Take care.
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