How Can I Tell If a Woman Is Flirting With Me?

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Flirting is a fundamental behavior both men and women do to communicate with each other before any conversation begins.  These non-verbal cues can help you know if she is flirting with you.  Although one of these cues by itself may not indicate she is flirting, if you see two or more of these cues from a woman across the room, then the flirtation has begun!
She smiles and draws attention to her mouth
When a woman smiles at you, her smile can hold your attention from across the room.  This kind of smile means she is definitely interested and it takes effort for her to smile at you like this so smile back at her. A women’s mouth can be very seductive and when she lures you in to watch her do something with her mouth, she is flirting with you most definitely.  Some of the most effective signs she is flirting will have her applying lip-gloss, running her finger across her lip, sucking on the cherry from her drink, or using the straw in her cocktail instead of sipping her drink from the rim of the glass.  Lips are potent and effective in flirting tools, so be on the lookout for some lip smacking fun.
She Crosses Her Legs
When a woman gazes at you, slowly uncrosses her legs while still looking at you and then crosses her legs again (all with eye contact), she is flirting with you. That’s a big move that a lot of guys don’t know about. Watch the girl to see if her legs are flirting with you.
She Mirrors Your Movements
A woman will follow your lead and mirror your body language when she is interested.  This type of flirtation can be exciting to watch. You may lean in closer to her and she will do the same, you may lean back, relax, then you can watch her play up your moves with her feminine ways.
She Plays with Her Hair
Women use their hair as a versatile flirting tool.  She may twirl her hair with a finger or two or let it gently fall just over one eye, adding a sense of come-hither appeal. Show her you’re flirting back by playing with her hair too. If she accepts it, then she wants you.
She Touches You
A slight, soft touch sending chills up your spine and your hair stand on end is a good sign she is flirting.  When she reaches out and gently caresses your arm, hand, or shoulder – she is flirting.  Do not delay in reciprocating, because there will be other touches she will want to express.
She Enters Your Personal Space
When a woman enters your personal space she may brush up against you while passing by (usually when there is not a crowd forcing her to wedge her way past) with a glance and a smile, she is letting you know she wants you to reciprocate in the flirt.
She Makes Eye Contact
Since the eyes are the windows of the soul, eye contact from a woman is a sign of confidence and sometimes trust.  Her eyes are telling you: no games here just a straightforward shooter.   She may even raise one eyebrow while smiling at you, indicating she likes what she sees.

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