i have had sex with different women for abwt three years but i dont know the exact position of the vagina i always place my penis above and my partner has to direct it inside.please help if affects me because the moment she directs it i feel humiliated
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Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
the fact you feel humiliated or shamed is proof that you should NOT be aving sex! AT ALL! dude, ur a guy, NOT mr. know-everything-at-everytime! every woman is physiologically different, so the best you can do is position yourself in the general area of the vagina!
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
There is no need to feel humiliated or anything else because it's actually more common that the woman guides the penis into the vagina.
Awaisagha / 28 / Man / Likes Women / Single
so whats wrong in this,in beginning my wife used to direct my penis in her vagina,and i never felt humiliated,instead i felt more hard and lovesick that this is our love that she wants the sex too,and its not from my side only.all u have to do is,think positive...
Bastagde / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
Not a big deal like the others said its very common when your just getting to know your partner.
If your looking for some practical advice though ...Aim for the middle of the wet spot :)..
if there is no wet spot you got bigger problems.......+P just teasing.
Use your hand and play with her before you try to put it in...this foreplay will allow you to learn the geography of her genitals. be gentle and listen to her to make sure it feels okay and . The top of her vagina is kinda of like a tent. There are flaps on either side of an opening but you enter at the bottom :P and when you find the vaginal canal or hole keep your finger there to guide your penis in....ask for her patients in the matter and just tell her you want to learn her body better...good luck
MUDA · wow thanx i hve actually come to do it the right way
Doesn / Bisexual / Likes Bisexuals / Single
Put on some nightvision goggles
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · those don't help!!!! maybe some of that glow-in-the-dark huntin paint......
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