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i kno this is dum but my father diedwhen i was 14 and i never had enough time to discuss this subject.should i be nice,aggressive.whats creepy and what aint?LOL!pleas respond.
Confident - be confident. Nice is good because, well, you don't want to be an asshole, but nice can also make you seem like a pushover. Aggressive is good in the sense that it will make you look confident, but if you're too pushy, you'll turn women off. The best thing to do is be a little jokingly cocky, like walk up to a girl and say "Okay, okay. Yes I'll let you talk to me. Geesh, you don't have to beg..." Make it seem like she was hitting on you, in a joking way, and it'll at least make her laugh. If she's with friends, engage them too so you don't look ignorant of her surroundings. Overall, be yourself...be honest. Women can smell elaborate lies a mile away, and it turns us off really quickly.
There was a great show out for awhile called "The Pickup Artist" and it taught men how to hit on and seduce women. You can find most of the episodes of it on Hulu, and I think you should totally watch it. Here's a link so you don't have to go hunting for it :) http://www.hulu.com/search?query=the+pickup+artist&st=0
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Confident - be confident. Nice is good because, well, you don't want to be an asshole, but nice can also make you seem like a pushover. Aggressive is good in the sense that it will make you look confident, but if you're too pushy, you'll turn women off. The best thing to do is be a little jokingly cocky, like walk up to a girl and say "Okay, okay. Yes I'll let you talk to me. Geesh, you don't have to beg..." Make it seem like she was hitting on you, in a joking way, and it'll at least make her laugh. If she's with friends, engage them too so you don't look ignorant of her surroundings. Overall, be yourself...be honest. Women can smell elaborate lies a mile away, and it turns us off really quickly.
There was a great show out for awhile called "The Pickup Artist" and it taught men how to hit on and seduce women. You can find most of the episodes of it on Hulu, and I think you should totally watch it. Here's a link so you don't have to go hunting for it :) http://www.hulu.com/search?query=the+pickup+artist&st=0
Good luck!
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