Being a couple can, at times, lean it bit towards the less exciting side. So, to combat the bedroom blahs, it’s sometimes a good idea to occasionally add an extra player to the court to make the game of sex more adventurous. However, there is some etiquette involved to arranging and carrying out the deed to ensure that everything runs smoothly. Find out how to organize and carry out one by following these steps.
Making sure the girlfriend is ok with the threesome
Talk to your partner. Make sure you and your girlfriend are thinking the same when discussing a threesome; talk about what you would like to achieve through it. There will be boundaries involved, so ask yourself and your girlfriend how far you’re each willing to go. Also, talk about what things that each of you is willing and not willing to do with the third addition, and what and where are you allowed and not allowed to touch. The bottom line is to agree on a game plan before beginning.
Picking out the new person
Adding your new partner is the most vital part and most scary of your threesome. The first thing you need to figure out is which gender you both will be most comfortable with. Talk to your partner about her preferences, and if you have opposite tastes, then find a. A good way to start, especially if this is your first time attempting a threesome, is to let the person who is less comfortable choose the partner. Remember: the more comfortable the two of you are, the more fun you will have. Before setting out to find a suitable addition, agree on gender, age, experience and personality.
Asking the new person to join you
The easiest way to pick up your new partner is to head into a bar or club. To start, use your girlfriend to approach the candidate first. Start by smiling at your intended target- if they smile back, then you are off to a good start. Approach him or her in an inconspicuous manner and chat for a while before getting down to business. Eventually, you'll have to just go ahead and ask your target. If they agree, it’s time to move on to times and locations, and if they don’t, move on.
Finding the right place to have the threesome
Get a place to do the deed in. For a successful threesome to occur, you need a neutral place, and a hotel room should work best. Remember that the most expensive location isn’t necessarily the most ideal; rather, a good, large bed will be most. Once everyone is together, there isn’t much left to do except to decide who goes first. The best way to make sure both you and your girlfriend have a good time is to stick to your game plan and don’t be afraid to experiment!If you follow these simple steps and successfully arranged your threesome, the hard part is done. Time for the fun!
