Guys, this particular question may seem fairly simple to you, but for your special lady, it is extremely important. This shows her that you are making a commitment to her exclusively. It also shows that you are taking the relationship seriously now and are ready to move up to the next level of intimacy. So, good for you. She will not necessarily want to discuss this while yelling over 20,000 screaming fans at a sporting event. Unless of course that sporting event has some significance to your relationship (i.e. where you first kissed or went on your first date, etc.). Although this is not as important as asking her to marry you, it is still important. You should appear as though this is something you want to do, something you are excited about. So, here are a few tips to get you headed in the right direction.
Pick a good spot to ask her to move in with you
Although you do not have to make a huge spectacle out of this, you should put some thought into it. Asking her over dinner at your place isn’t a bad idea. Again, taking her to the place you had your first date or first kiss can show that you put some thought into asking her and wanted that to be a special moment. Where ever it is, you should try to put some kind of romance into it, even if it is just a little. Also, asking her to move in with you over the phone is probably not the best way (unless you are in a long-distance relationship). Try your best to make this phase of your relationship special for her.
Make sure it’s the right tome to ask
Timing of this is important. You probably shouldn’t ask when she is stressed or busy at work. She may want to talk about it and you might even get an answer that you don’t want if the timing is not right. Ask her at a time when the two of you a spending some quality time relaxing. When both of you have the time and energy to talk about what this will mean for your relationship.
Make the moment special
Make this something special that she will remember forever. Call you local florist. You can rarely go wrong with the right flowers. Also, your florist can help you choose which flowers will go best with this occasion if you don’t already know her favorite. Whatever you choose to do, go the extra mile to make you asking this simple question a special moment in your relationship.
Final thoughts on asking your girlfriend to move in with you
Overall, showing her that she is important to you and that you want to spend more time with her is extremely satisfying to her. To her, this means that the time she has put into your relationship has been noticed and appreciated. So, relax and take your time to show her that her feelings are correct. This should be a happy time for the two of you. Enjoy your time together.
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