Even the most beautiful girls have trouble getting men to hit on them. This has nothing to do with how appealing you are, it's all about how approachable you make yourself. If you feel like you've got it going on (or you don't) but you have a lack of suitors, take a look at the following tips.
Dress To Impress
You want to wear clothes that are flattering and sexy but not too revealing or tacky. If you're wearing a shirt that you're falling out of and a skirt that nearly reveals your butt, you are going to appear slutty – even if you're not. A good rule of thumb to follow is not to show off and display more than one body part in one outfit. That is not to say that your whole body shouldn't look good but if you're wearing a short skirt that shows off your legs, don't wear a super low cut shirt that shows off your cleavage. Remember to keep it attractive, yet tasteful. Try a shirt that bares your shoulders because that will make men interested in seeing the rest of your body.
Travel In Small Numbers
It's great to go out with a big group of girl friends but when you're aiming to get men to hit on you, traveling in small numbers ups your chances. A man gets easily intimidated by a beautiful woman, so imagine how intimidated he will get by a big group of beautiful women. He will feel more comfortable talking to you if there are fewer girls around to witness if you decide to reject him. You have a better chance of having men approach you if you're with a couple of girls, rather than in the middle of a group of ten.
Make Eye Contact
Regardless of where the man is standing, make eye contact with him. Men find it very sexy if your face is slightly pointing down and you stare at him from across the room, smiling at him seductively. Make sure that he notices you noticing him because that will prompt him to approach you. Once he comes up to you, continue to use eye contact during the conversation. Keeping your eyes locked on his eyes will keep his attention on you, and will most likely make him puddy in your hands.
Smile At Him
Having a nice and genuine smile will make you more approachable. When you flash those pearly whites make sure that your teeth look good because a nasty mouth is a huge turn off. If he sees you from across the room and you have a sexy smile on your face then you're going to be more appealing than the girl next to you that looks totally unfriendly. Don't have the smile glued on your face but keep your expressions soft.
Welcoming Body Language
Believe it or not, body language is a huge factor when a man is deciding whether or not to approach you. Don't stand with your arms crossed because it makes you seem unfriendly and unapproachable. Bring attention to your lips by subtly licking them, put on lip gloss, lick something off your finger, etc. Play with your hair by flipping it or twirling it because it's girlie and it draws attention to your face – flipping your hair off of your shoulders to expose your skin is also a turn-on.
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