People are starting to engage in sexual activity before they are out of middle school, and they are continuing to do so long after their Medicare years. STDs are not bias to age, sex, race, education, salary, etc., so it's important to learn methods to avoid them. Most STDs are spread through bodily fluids such as blood, semen, or vaginal fluids, but some live in sores or cuts as well. The only sure way to prevent STDs is abstinence... But since most people don't follow that method, let's examine some others.
Alternatives to Sex
Although it may not seem as exciting as sexual activity, there are alternative methods to achieving intimacy in a relationship. One alternative is dry sex, or humping with clothes on. You can also integrate making out (as long as your partner doesn't have open sores) into dry sex. A sensual massage is another alternative to sex. You can use oils and candles to make the experience more romantic, and massages allow for skin-to-skin contact. If you are a lone ranger then you can always use the good old fashioned way: pleasure yourself. There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself and it might even be more satisfying; after all, nobody knows what you like better than you do.
Protection
Condoms are not 100% successful in protecting against STDs but they certainly help. There are male and female condoms and both offer protection. Latex condoms are the best choice but if you have an allergy to latex then you can use polyurethane condoms instead. Condoms must be preserved and not exposed to heat, cold, or humidity; condoms shouldn't be stuffed and stored in a wallet either. Most importantly, it's absolutely pertinent to use a new condom every time! Don't count on your partner to bring protection, you should always be responsible for your own.
Monogamy is Key
Being in a mutually monogamous relationship lowers the risks for STDs. As long as both people in the relationship have been tested and are STD-free then staying faithful to one another prevents STDs from being transmitted. Don't be afraid to discuss exclusivity because you have the right to know if you are more at risk for STDs.
Get Tested
No matter how monogamous you and your partner may be, it's never a bad idea to get tested. Some STDs are "invisible," so you could have retrieved it from a previous partner without ever seeing symptoms. Many STDs can be treated so rather than risking spreading an STD to your partner or vise versa, just get tested.
Don't Drink or Do Drugs Before Sex
If you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol it is difficult to think about having safe sex. There is a correct way to use a condom and you won't be concerned about that if you're bombed. Also, if you're under the influence you might have sex with someone that you wouldn't otherwise want to.
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