Have you ever seen those sexy villains on TV that just seem to take over the screen? Characters like Catwoman are modern day portrayals of a secret society of women called dominatrix. These women are power, strong, and completely in control of whatever man they are with. Sound like someone you want to be? Well, let’s take a look at what it may take to become a dominatrix…
The Attire
Before you even think about acting like a dominatrix, you have to start looking like one. No man is going to be intimidated by Martha Stewart walking into the bedroom. So, the key to a good dominatrix costume is something incredibly sex but still commanding. Most of the time vinyl or leather will do the trick in that department. There are options like leather which can be just as hot, so you’ll have to look for a fabric that you like. Go for something that’s skin tight but doesn’t reveal any cleavage or other body parts. You want to keep your man guessing, and the only way he’ll do that is if you keep the girls in leather lockdown. Catsuits are the most common things to buy and they are also the easiest to find
The Accessories
A dominatrix outfit isn’t complete without some accessories to go along with it. A whip is a must, no questions asked. That is your key to power and the one thing that your man will tremble under. You may also look into getting some chains, handcuffs or the like to strap him down during your tantalizing torture. You may also want to get a leash for your man so you can walk him around like a dog. There are a lot of men who really get off on that.
The Attitude
When you go into your dominatrix mindset, you have to literally transform yourself into the master of the bedroom. You’re sexy, yes, but you’re also very mean. That anger is what keeps you in control. You have to go into the situation with confidence and the ability to literally throw your man on the ground and make him beg for mercy. If you’re having trouble picturing this, think of Xena Warrior Princess meets Laura Croft Tomb Raider, and then kick it up for notches. That’s where you want to be.
How much pain is too much pain?
In a dominatrix situation, you’ll be forced to put your partner in pain. Don’t worry, he’ll like it. Otherwise he would not have agreed to participate in the night in the first place. If you’re just leaving read marks and small fingernail scratched, your man should be okay. Any sign of blood or bruising though and you need to step back in your Martha Stewart pants. Love, hurt, but don’t hurt too much. You want him to be around for more hot sex in the future.
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