Older women have long drawn the eye of many a younger man, whether this is because the men perceive the women to have extensive sexual experience, are drawn to their maternal instincts, prefer the look of a more mature body, or other factors. Whether you call them MILFs or cougars, older women are enjoying a surge in popularity as women become more open with their sexuality and older celebrities continue to stun with their gorgeous figures and sex appeal. If you’re interested in dating a MILF, you have several options for attracting one who meets your specifications.
What Kind of MILF?
First you’ll need to determine what “kind” of MILF you’re interested in dating. Some women who are openly and actively looking for younger men for relationships are seeking the proverbial boy toy – that is, someone with whom they’re interested in having only a sexual relationship. Because women and men reach their peaks of sexual interest at significantly different ages, this is often true of older women seeking younger men.
On the other hand, other older women are seeking someone with whom they share common interests who happens to be younger. This may be because they’re naturally attracted to younger partners or because they’re very physically active and want someone who can keep up with them. It’s often true that these women also prefer men who are still very mature for their ages, hold steady jobs, and are otherwise self-sufficient; that is, they’re not interested in being a mother figure or simply a sexual object. Determine which type of MILF you’re interested in and seek to attract them specifically so neither of you will be disappointed in or expect more from the nature of the relationship.
Where to Meet MILFs
You’re most likely to meet MILFs if you hunt for them in their “natural habitats.” You are far more likely to find a MILF at the grocery store, a soccer game, or a fundraising event than you are at a smoky bar, a night club, or a house party. Remember, MILFs have social lives that are often closely tied to their children’s lives, so seeking them out in places where mothers are likely to be significantly increases your chances of finding one to whom you’re attracted.
Approaching the MILF
Once you’ve found a MILF who looks promising, you need to determine if she is married; usually a quick glance at the ring finger is all you need to decide. When you’re ready to approach the MILF, strike up a conversation. It could be about the place you’ve met (the convenience of the grocery store, the referee’s bad call at the soccer game, the charity hosting the fundraising event), or you could simply introduce yourself. Remember, however, that MILFs have heard all the standard “lines” and can spot insincerity a mile away – even if it is flattering.
Sharing a Date with the MILF
Chances are the MILF has spent the last several years dining out at child-friendly restaurants where they give out cute little toys with the kid’s meals or have a slew of noisy entertainment and games in the background. To shake up her schedule, take her out for dinner at a nice restaurant – you know, the kind where they have cloth tablecloths and real glasses instead of butcher paper you’re encouraged to draw on and paper cups with lids. She’ll appreciate the fact that you saw her as a woman rather than a mother.
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Miami / Man / Likes Women / Single
My first serious GF was a MILF. And she chose me. I was a college student, horny but not very cool with girls. And she decided to make me her boy toy.
That first night (first date, she took me to her home,) when she had me in her bed she told me she would do anything I asked, anything at all. And when I was not ready with an answer she got on her knees and had me sit on the side of the bed.
That night, she gave up a good night's sleep, so she could suck me off whenever I got hard, four or five times. (I didn't think to count, but every hour or hour and a half...) And I began going their every night, having great sex, (great sex for me, she insisted on being submissive, I should have stopped her, I didn't know enough to do that.) She was pretty mixed up, this was in Florida, she fronted for the mob, owning bars, but really, she was just fronting for mobsters.
I was, as you have just read, very backward sexually. And when one of her business associates (a guy in his 60's,) wanted to take my place I caused him to reconsider; But from then on, I had to have sex with her at school, I'm sure they would have shot me had I stayed overnight at her house.
I lived by my wits in other areas, this wasn't a big change for me. I never graduated, I'm a computer scientist but (at the time,) they didn't even offer that as a major... I was there for the education. I guess that means social education, too...
When we broke up (my idea,) she told me that I could call her anytime, and she'd empty her bed if necessary and give me sex whenever I wanted, any place, any time. She did too.
I went away from that relationship wide awake when it came to women, and began sleeping with the coed's in my school. I became someone that today I regard very badly.
I don't know who's reading this, but my advice is to date responsibly. Don't lie or deceive. And be kind! I say this now because I wasn't at first and it cost me so much.