Men like to get lap dances from strippers but most men are weary of dating one. Usually people have the impression that strippers are easy, and definitely not the type of women to bring home to Mom. If you have found that you're interested in a stripper but you're not sure how dating her would work, take some advice from below.
Make Sure You Know What You're Getting Into
You cannot get into a relationship with a stripper and then expect her to quit her job just because you want her to. Men are going to pay attention to her at work and probably outside of it. You didn't get with her under false pretenses so don't all of a sudden let it bother you that she is a stripper once the two of you are dating. If you won't be able to handle the fact that other guys are seeing her naked on a nightly basis, don't get involved in the first place – don't convince yourself that she will change for you.
Don't Visit Her Work
No matter how tempting it might be to go to her place of work and make sure that no funny business is happening, do not do it. First of all, it'll absolutely kill you to watch her parading around for other men. Second of all, you will make her nervous. If she sees you there she isn't going to be able to perform like she normally does, she won't make a lot of money, and she might get in trouble with her boss. It's okay to pick her up from work but don't go inside and display that she is spoken for because you'll definitely cause her to lose money.
Don't Assume That She's Promiscuous
Don't accuse her of having affairs with her customers. She is a stripper and she is going to give lap dances but that doesn't mean that she is promiscuous. Once again, you knew what you were getting into when you got into the relationship, so you have no right to accuse her of being unfaithful on the grounds that she is a stripper. She is probably working to pay the bills or get through school, so she is not looking for anything more at her job either. Don't define her by her job as a stripper, define her by who she is.
Don't Drive Yourself Crazy By Thinking
Don't spend time thinking about what your girlfriend is doing because it will drive you out of your mind. Other guys are looking at her but she chooses to be with you. They might see her stripping but you get to touch her and have her as your girlfriend. While you might know this, you're better off not thinking about her career. Don't think of her as a stripper, think of her as a woman, and treat her like that.
Look At The Bright Side
On the bright side of things, she is probably a great dancer. She probably knows how to move her body in a way that most people don't, and she's probably flexible. Not to mention, you can ask her to give you your own private lap-dance as foreplay.
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