Hating on another person may not be a good thing, but taking revenge feels even better. That person may be an abusive ex who took you for granted, a nasty boss or someone who has done so many mean things to you that you contemplate revenge during each waking minute of your life. Maybe dating someone to get at that person you hate is the best way that you can think of to get that much needed revenge. To succeed in your plan, here are some suggestions you may want to consider:
Picking the “right” person to date
Don’t just pick anyone when you‘re looking for revenge. Pick someone that you know will create a significant impact on the person that you’re trying to get revenge at. A close friend, relative, daughter, son, etc. will usually be your best bet. Make sure that they’re related or that person is someone dear to that person you hate. That will give your revenge the most power.
Establishing a new relationship
Once you’ve picked the perfect decoy, do everything you can to make that person fall for you. If you intend to hurt that other person, he/she might be suspicious and will try to tell the one you’re dating to stay away from you. If the new partner has not fallen for you yet, he/she might get out of the relationship after realizing your intentions. You don’t want that to ruin your revenge. You will have all the advantage if that person has fallen for you because you won‘t be faced with a possible break up. You will have control over him/her, and he’ll listen to no one but you. So do everything it would take for him/her to love you.
Telling the person you hate the news
Let the person you hate know that you’re going out with someone close to him. It would be better if you have kept everything a secret until that person has fallen deeply for you. And when he’s fallen into your trap, take the next necessary step for your revenge. Let the person you despise know that you and someone close to him/her are dating. Watch their reaction to see if it really hurt. You can use this reaction to feed your happiness and ego later on.
Breaking up your revenge relationship
Since you never really liked the person you were getting involved with, you’ll want to break up after you’ve had your revenge. Disappear or just tell the one you’re dating that you don’t want to see him again. It would surely hurt that person, and that is the effect that you’re after. Disregard the fact that you’re making someone pay for another person’s mistake. It just so happened that you don’t have other option but to hurt him to get to that other person who have done you wrong. Don’t ever answer his calls or his emails and ignore him if you see him. Make sure he suffers.
Using the person’s pain to your advantage
Show the person you want to get revenge on how miserable his friend/family has become because of you. And tell him that you planned everything all along. This will be the culmination of your plan, letting that other person feel what his friend/family has made you feel in the past. Whether you want that person you hate to know that you planned everything just for revenge or not, it’s all up to you. But it would be more satisfying to see that he was hurting or is affected by what you have done to that person who’s dear to him.
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