Ladies, your wonderful beau may tell you that you give the best blow jobs ever. BUT, we all know that no man can resist a great blow job with a few perks, such as the famous deep throat. However, if you have never done it, this can seem like a task reserved for porn stars and “ladies of the night”. This, however, is completely false. Anyone can learn it. Here are a few simple tips that should help you along your way.
Relax before you go for a deep throat
First and foremost, relax. If you are tense your muscles (even those internal ones) will be tense also. This can even cause you to gag sooner and more often. Let’s be honest. Regardless of how caring and amazing he is, he doesn’t want you to gag on his dick (YUCK!). So, before attempting this try a few deep cleansing breaths and relax your body. Also, breath through your nose deeply and regularly while trying to go as far as you can. Do not hold your breath as this will again cause you to tense back up.
Ease into the deep throat
There is also nothing wrong with taking a few attempts at it. Start out by going as far as you can comfortably. That is, without hitting your gag reflex. Then slide out while exhaling. Back in when you inhale and try to go a little further down the shaft each time. It is doubtful that he will complain. After all, it may take a while for his orgasm, but he is still having a blast watching you.
Change positions if it gets hard (no pun intended)
For those of us with a shallower palate, deep throating may seem impossible. However, there are several things you should be aware of that may make it go down a little smoother. First, change you position. Whoever told you that you can only give a blow job on your knees? The easiest way (at least that I have found) is to get into almost a “69” position. As most men have a slight, natural curve upward, coming from above can not only create a matching curve with your throat (thus allowing your throat to be more accepting) but also be a more comfortable position for you to finish the “job”. Also, laying on your back with your chin tilted up can help. This will give your partner the thrust option though, so be careful; however, a quick nip can be a wonderful reminder.
General things to think about when deep throating
Overall, deep throating can be done by anyone, as long as you don’t go to fast. Remember that relaxation is key. Also, the “turn-on factor” can be helpful in determining how far and fast you can go. The “turn-on factor” is how turned on you are by him being hot and bothered. The higher your “turn-on factor” , the further your will be able to take it. Although alcohol is “liquid courage”, it can also work against you. So, be aware of how much you have had before you try this. Keep in mind also that “practice makes perfect” as well as if at first you don’t succeed, keep trying till you can take the whole thing.
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