It is no secret that men enjoy receiving blow jobs. The idea does sound rather appealing. A man is allowed to sit or lie down and allow the women to do the work while he reaps the benefits. However, men often find that their girlfriends or wives are unwilling to perform fellatio. Why is this? We look at several possible reasons.
The Taste
Many women will often complain that they hate the taste of a man’s semen or of his penis. If a woman is fine-tuned to her man’s penis, she should be able to sense when he it about to achieve orgasm from oral sex. By removing her mouth and continuing to use only her hands, she can avoid having semen in her mouth all together. There are also many flavored lubricants that help. Some women complain that their man’s nether regions stink. So men, you must be certain to take a shower! You may also want to consider having your groin waxed.
There Is Nothing In It For Her
Men enjoy blow jobs. A woman, who loves her man, is usually pleased during sex to see that he is enjoying himself. However, giving oral sex can become tiresome if a woman is never on the receiving end of it. A man should be willing to reciprocate. Treat her. Perform what she likes. While a woman’s achievement of orgasm may take more time than a man’s, a man will find that a happy partner is much more likely to be compliant with his request for oral sex.
Thinking of Other Things
If you, as a woman, only give in to giving your man oral sex because he begs for it, you can distract yourself mentally while you are doing it. Even if you are thinking about doing the dishes while you are performing fellatio, try not to let your partner know that you are. The speed of your tempo and how hard your strokes are will affect how quickly your partner achieves orgasm. If you absolutely find the idea of giving oral sex disgusting, there is nothing wrong with you. Do not let a man pressure into doing something that you are not comfortable with.
Don’t Criticize!
Men, if you do not like the way you wife performs fellatio, be very discriminatory in how you tell her. Women can be sensitive to criticism. Open and honest communication between to parties is necessary for them to have mutually pleasurable sex.
