There are some men who seem to have dates one right after the other. There are other men who cannot seem to find a date to save their lives. There are men whose marriages are successful, and those whose marriages are not. Why is this? It is all based upon the woman you are dating. Are there specific rules or guidelines on how to find a good woman? There is not a formula to finding such a woman. However, there may be several reasons that you may NOT be finding a good woman.
Forget what you've read
Sometimes men exaggerate their problem when they say that they do not know how to find a good woman. Men interact with women on a daily basis. This does not mean you should ask out every creature in a skirt. However, the environment (i.e. a sports bar or church) that you find an interesting woman in will give you an indicator as to the type of person she is. The next thing you can do is promptly to forget any advice or self help books that are written for men by men. There is not a single formula that will attract a woman to you. Each woman is an individual, and she deserves to be treated as such.
Don't think about your wish list
Your “wish list” of attributes is not a good starting point on how to find a good woman. You shouldn’t settle for the first person who will have you. However, pickiness about physical attributes or other minor details can seriously limit your dating pool. Your hormones can also get in your way. If you base your potential dates on their looks alone, you will miss out on many great women you could get to know. Most women are not going to look like Angelina Jolie or Tyra Banks. A woman’s eye color or hair color should not prevent you from trying to get to know her.
Look in the right places
To get a good woman, you need to know where to look. A local bar may be okay, but all you may get there is trash. A good place to look may be a local library or grocery store - some place that is quiet and easy to get to. Look for women who are shopping by themselves and look open to converstation. If the girl is closed to begin with, you're fighting a losing battle.
Final thoughts on finding a good woman
You may be one of those men who have tried everything to find the answer to why you don’t know how to find a good woman. However, have you truly heeded the advice you have received from friends and family? Finding a good woman is not easy, but you can also be the one who is the greatest impediment to your success. Do not hesitate to approach a woman. Women are attracted to confidence.
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