Women are hard to understand at the best of times, and marriage is a complicated and rocky subject full of emotion. Some women have an aversion to marriage, especially if they have survived a bad relationship. Those who want to get married sometimes have a fixed idea about how the process should take place. Being a man, it’s often hard to understand how a woman is thinking, and if you want to see her views on marriage, you’re probably going to need some help. So here are a few tips to guide you through a woman’s marital mind:
Read a magazine for some insight
For men who are totally without experience of talking to women about marriage, a good idea is to pick up a woman’s magazine and take a look at the kind of comments found on the subject. Very young women in their early twenties will have a different concept to women who are more mature. Young women tend to get somewhat lost in the romantic, lacy, flowery wedding day dream and lose sight of the long term commitment necessary for a successful married partnership. You can learn a lot from reading a girly magazine, but you may not want to do it in public.
Older women’ views on marriage
More mature ladies have a more grounded view of marriage and may be approached more easily for an opinion without risk of offence. Their views are usually fully formed by the time they are thirty and they have a good idea of what they want and more importantly, what they do not want in a married partner. If you are dating an older women, all you have to do is to talk to her about whether or not she wants to get married and what will happen at the wedding. She should be open and honest in response.
What women have to think about
Every woman is different, obviously, and some women would love to get married but cannot bear the thought of losing their independence. A woman’s biological clock is a problem men do not have to consider as they can go on producing children until are quite elderly. However, women have a window of fertility which they must work within to produce a family, juggling a career and other commitments around having kids and all the responsibilities they bring.
Getting answers out of her in a subtle way
A woman needs to consider whether she wants a complex life before agreeing to get married. When you are trying to find out what a woman’s views are on marriage, remember to ask about these things. Take the time to consider whether you would be prepared to support a woman through career gaps while she has children, and ask her what she thinks about it. The questions you can ask about having a family and fitting in with a career should reveal a woman’s true thoughts on the whole marriage range of subjects and let you know exactly where you stand.
Asking her friends her views on marriage
Wanting to know a woman’s views on marriage is usually because you are considering asking her to marry you. If that is the case, do not be tempted to ask her friends or family what she is likely to think or do: it is fatal. Not only will they be unlikely to have an accurate idea of what she thinks, she may change her opinions regularly and these people cannot possibly know what her thoughts are at any given time. Women are not that hard to understand (okay, maybe they are) but you need to talk to them to find out the answers. Set up a quiet dinner at home for the two of you and make sure you will not be interrupted for an hour or two. Then ask her!
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Shiva / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I am men want a beautiful girl for marrage.
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