In some offices, this is an automatic big no-no. Flirting with the boss can lead to trouble, but as long as it remains innocent, I see no harm in some mutual flirtation. There are some things to avoid, of course, and all of those will be explored in this article. Take a look below at some of the ways that you can have some innocent fun at your work place.
See if your boss will flirt back
You never want to start some sort of flirtation extravaganza if all you’re doing is hitting on your boss. That’s a surefire way of causing corporate tension, and you might even be accused of sexual harassment. Of course, if the boss is the one who starts the flirtation, you should be in good shape. You just have to make sure that he or she is only flirting for fun. Otherwise you might actually be getting harassed.
Try to keep sex out of the flirtation
Even though flirting often leads to innuendos, those are usually best left for people you may actually act out your discussions with. There is no need to give the guy a cock tease if you aren’t going to act out on it. That just leads to fantasies on both ends, and fantasies can cause tension. Picturing yourself having sex makes for some pretty awkward moments later on, so just avoid that when possible. Get in a habit of flirting in the way you talk, not in what you talk about. That should make things a bit more acceptable.
Flirt while no one notices
You don’t want to be blatantly flirting in front of other employees. That’s how office rumors get started. To avoid being the recipient of said rumors, try flirting when you guys are alone in your office or over the phone. In either case, just make sure others remain sort of unaware of what’s going on. It may be impossible to mask it completely, but the less that people know, the less trouble there will be.
Wear what the boss likes to see
Flirtation is all about compliments, so give your boss something to compliment you about. Ladies, if you have a shirt that makes the girls look good, put that on for work. Those favorite pants you have that give you a heart shaped butt – put those on too. Men, show off your pecks in style or wear that button up that showcases the blue in your eyes. Just be the thing that your boss looks forward to seeing every day. In doing that, you will get instant brownie points and maybe even a shot at employee of the month.
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