A lot of women, if not all, agree on one thing. A kiss can tell you a lot about a guy. The fist kiss can literally open or close the door to a second date. Girls often talk about a guy’s kissing skills a lot more than his skills in the sack and they often mean it as a compliment when they say he kisses like a girl. Fact is, the simple kiss, the act of two mouths meeting and the gentle introduction of the tongues shaking hands so to speak, has been the object of poetry since man could put pen to paper. And the art of french kissing might be something practiced by every Tom, Dick and Harriet, but whether it is poetry in motion or a limerick scribbled on the door of a toilet cubicle, you cannot deny the subtle power of a passionate kiss.
The beginning of a French kiss
The anticipation of the kiss, the beautiful prelude before making contact can be pure magic. If you are sure a kiss is about to happen moisten your lips with a light brush of your tongue and close your eyes as you lean forward. You will in the moments before it happens notice whether or not the other person is leaning their head and you can lean it ever so slightly the other way so as to avoid bumping noses. As your lips connect open your mouth just a bit and let your lips first explore each other’s lips. Never rush into it by immediately sticking your tongue in the other person’s mouth, wait for an invitation by sense.
Learn how long to tease
As this gentle caress progresses into something more intimate, you can sense whether it should go further. Some people, and I guess mostly women, prefer a longer linger on the lips before allowing the entrance of the tongue. Be aware of the other person’s body language, this will tell you a lot about whether or not you should become more powerful in your approach. If the signs are there and you can usually tell by the breathing and faint moans made by the recipient of the kiss, you can go ahead and slightly touch tongues. The tongue is one of the most sensitive parts of the body and the mere touch will create immediate pleasure and to allow it to linger can be pure heaven.
Explore the mouth
When the tongues meet and the initial explosion of senses envelopes your body, you are going to want to explore his or her mouth completely. This is where it becomes a full fledged french kiss where you allow each other’s tongues to freely roll around and taste one another. This is not a probing act and your tongue should be limber and accepting to the other’s movements. It is a give and take procedure that requires a bit of selflessness in order to make it work.
Use your hands
Use your hands when you kiss. This can only enhance the experience. Touch each other’s faces, each other’s hair, neck, back; make it as sensual as you can. French kissing is as much an act of two people caressing their souls as it is their mouths. And once you get the hang of it, it becomes a beautiful, sensual experience, well loved all over the world for very good reason.
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