So you have found the perfect man for you and there's only way one thing standing in your way – his girlfriend. If he is completely content in his relationship then chances are he is not going to be interested in you. On the other hand, if you know that he is unhappy or you know that he is interested in you then the ball is in your court. Although your charm is probably enough to win him over, follow some of these guidelines as well.
Find Out What She Does That Bugs Him
If a man with a girlfriend is showing interest in another woman that is usually a sure sign that he is tired of his girlfriend. Therefore, if you want to get the guy to leave his girlfriend for you then you must find out what it is about her that he dislikes. If she is too controlling, clingy, annoying, flirty, not attentive, talkative, distant, dishonest, promiscuous, etc., then make make sure he knows that you are not that way. If he is venting to you about his girlfriend problems then you can tell him how much you hate people that act that way, and that you totally understand where he's coming from. You can also tell him a about a "situation" that you were in that shows that you're different from her. However, do not rip on his girlfriend because that will just make you look bad.
Show Interest In Him
If his girlfriend is not attentive or he is just tired of her, showing interest in him will make him more attracted to you. Most men think that women only enjoy talking about themselves, so he will be happy that you're interested in his life. Showing interest in him is also flattering, and a man needs an ego boost on a regular basis. If you are interested in him and his girlfriend is not then you're going to show him what he is missing in his relationship. At the same time, make sure that you're not overbearing. Try to find out about him naturally but do not interrogate him.
Never Seem Too Available
You want him to know that he is the apple of your eye but you don't want to seem desperate. Don't always be the one to call or message him, let him do some of the work as well. Don't let him think that you're sitting by the phone and waiting for him to call, make sure he realizes that you have a life (he won't be interested in a clingy woman). You want him to see that you're vulnerable but never too vulnerable – you can depend on him while also being an independent woman. Also, it's never a bad idea for him to see that other men are interested in you, but don't brag about all of your pursuers.
Be Classy and Sexy
A man is looking for a woman that is sexy and classy at the same time. As superficial as it may sound, part of being sexy is keeping up your physical appearance. Men like women that take of care of themselves. You also want him to see that your personality is sexy. Be flirty with him, touch him any chance you get, look him in the eyes, and show off your assets (without being too forward). Don't go overboard by revealing ALL of your assets because then he is going to think that you're trashy. You want to show him what you've got in a subtle and classy way because no man wants a woman that reveals herself to everyone. Likewise, show him that you're confident and comfortable in your own skin.
Show Him a Good Time
Show him what it's like to have fun again. Allow him to be care-free when he is hanging out with you and try to do activities that you know he enjoys. Have a sense of humor with him and go out of your way to make sure that he's having a good time. Be informal and allow him to be himself around you, and show him that you like his personality.
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Iamfwomwome / Woman / Likes Men / Single
the Kama Sutra mentions that a woman employing her wiles to separate a man from another woman commits a form of violence against her sister.
Meanwhile, nearby there's a bachelor hoping to make someone happy.
Stolen partners are difficult to trust.
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