Ever heard of femdom? It stands for female domination. Sound appetizing? Well, it should. The art of domination is one that must be carefully mastered, but it comes with great rewards. In a femdom relationship, the man is in constant mercy of the woman. She is in complete and total control. This role reversal is one that turns countless people on, and many of them hide their secrets in the wood work. Today, we reveal all. Here’s what it will take to get into femdom.
Have a willing partner
If you are a guy, you will need to have a woman who is willing to take charge. This is not hard to do as most women get really aroused by the idea of taking total control. The problem you will encounter will be based on how far into femdom you want to get. Will she wear a strap-on and ass fuck you? Will she still be a part of vaginal intercourse but only allow you to cum when she says so? Will she be whipping you while you sit in a woman’s outfit? All of these things have to come into play. You will need to know what you want and get someone to accommodate that.
Women, this part comes a bit harder for you. If you want to be a femdom girl, you will need to find a submissive guy. A guy who likes to cross dress, is bisexual or has a very light personality will be your best bet. The macho men of America likely won’t cut it. Pick the guy that looks a bit timid already, or one that looks like he could be if the right whip was placed against him (wink).
Get the femdom tools and gear
You can pick out an outfit that you think suit’s the situation. This is a matter of your own fantasies and roll playing. She might be in a one piece PVC cat suit and he may be in a French maid’s uniform. You get to decide. For tools though, strap-ons and most anal toys will be great, as will whips, handcuffs and other restraints. The point is to get an assortment of things that a woman could use to dominate with. The more she can submit the man, the hotter the sex will be. Leashes, chokers, nipple clamps- there are so many tools to choose from. Make your selection accordingly.
Work with the foreplay
The best part of a femdom relationship is the foreplay. That is when all the arousal comes in. The guy might be hard as a rock and then a small cube of ice can send that crashing down. That’s how domination works. It’s all about getting ready to burst and then making everything out to be a tease. Orgasms have to wait until the end, but they are far better because of that. If you can master the art of foreplay, you will be able to have a successful femdom relationship.
Cumming on command
In most femdom relationships, the woman says when the man gets to cum. This may sound odd, but it’s a very useful tool. Normally a guy will go before the woman says he can, but the thought of “You can’t cum until I tell you to” makes an orgasm all the more special. If you are in a femdom relationship, that’s how it will be.
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