Your first date went well, you’re sure that your date liked you too and you know you want to go out with her again - but you don’t know how to secure that second date! If you want to make sure that this rendezvous does not end at date number one, take a look at these tips on how to definitely score a second date. Have a Good First DateIf your first date is a torturous experience then she is not going to want to go on a second date with you. Have fun on the first date and she will want to have more fun on a second date. Don’t come to the date complaining about your boss or your ex, come with good energy. Get to know her and compliment her not only on how beautiful she is, but also on who she is as a person. Make sure that you seem interested in what she is saying but also make sure to keep it a double-sided conversation, because otherwise she will get bored. Don’t be a pushover and just agree with all of her opinions - respectfully challenge her on something that you disagree with. Basically, make sure she wants more of you.Ask Her To Go Out AgainWhen you’re saying goodbye at the end of date #1, ask her to go out with you again. Ask her to do something that she finds exciting or suggest a fabulous restaurant that serves her favorite type of food. If you ask her at the end of your first date then she will know for sure that you like her and she will look forward to seeing you again. Make sure that you ask her to make plans on a specific day and don’t just say, “Can we hang out again sometime?”
Give Her a Kiss On The Cheek When you are parting at the end of your first date, give her a soft kiss on her cheek. This will show her that you’re a gentleman but it will also turn her on. You will be so close to her lips that she will feel that tingling sensation, so it will be sexy and sweet at the same time. If you go in for a kiss on the lips you might be successful but you won’t surprise her. Softly kissing her cheek is old-fashioned and it will keep her wanting more of you. Likewise, it establishes a physical connection with her without coming on too strong.
Don’t Appear To Have ExpectationsDon’t make her think that she owes you anything in return for taking her out to dinner. Make it clear that you enjoy spending time with her and you’re not in it for the booty call. If you give her the impression that you’re only after sex she is going to be turned off, and she definitely won’t be interested in going on another date. There is definitely something to be said for getting to know each other before rushing into bed. She will see that you respect her as a woman and you’re not trying to rush her into anything. Contact Her The Next DayCall, text, or e-mail her the next day. Don’t do all three because you will seem clingy, but sending a short and sweet message telling her that you had fun or that you look forward to your next date will win you brownie points. You will also prove to her that stereotypes are incorrect since most guys will wait a few days to contact her.
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