Sometimes sex doesn’t involve you touching the other person at all. Granted, that’s sort of a rarity, but a lot of times something simple like mutual masturbation can do the trick. You can get turned on by watching your partner, and you can be turning yourself on at the same time. For one, it’s a great way to have safe sex, and it’s also a good way to somewhat have sex with a person if you aren’t ready for full penetration. Here are some different options you may have for mutual masturbation. Pick and choose accordingly.
Have one person be the star
A lot of times there is one person in the couple that basically acts like the performer. Typically this is the woman, but not always. For simplicity, let’s say “her” though. In this case, most of the attention is centered on the woman. She goes ahead and masturbates like normal, playing out her own fantasies in her head. The observer, on the other hand, watches intently and masturbates with the thought of the woman in mind. This is great for people who genuinely enjoy watching others masturbate. They get a free show, and the other person just gets to do what feels right. Everybody wins.
Two stars of the same show
In this case both people intently watch each other while they both masturbate. This involves a little bit of acting on both party’s parts as each person has to be both performer and observer. This, however, is a more interactive option than the first one. In this scenario, both people get to be involved in all the action. If you both enjoy watching masturbation and it turns you on, this is a great option. Typically you will try to let both of your orgasm at the same time. However, if it takes one to trigger the other, then adjust yourselves accordingly.
Going beyond masturbation
Sometimes the act of mutual masturbation can lead to the need for actual intercourse. If that is the case, you really have one of two options. You can try to masturbate all the way through, then have sex after you orgasm. Or you could choose to masturbate almost to the point of climax and then go in for penetration. The first option will allow for a more prolonged orgasm, but the second may make things feel better. They just won’t be very long. In either event, you can transition from masturbation to sex. It just depends on what you want.
An alternative meaning to mutual masturbation
In some instances, mutual masturbation means that both of you give hand sex to one another. This means that the guy fingers the girl and receives a hand job at the same time. This is similar to a 69, but it is all done with your hands. This option is usually just a transition to sex, like a teaser of sorts. Some couples do this though as a step up from dry humping.
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