How to Handle the Cum During a Blow Job : Sex Basics

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I had a friend of mine who might be able to introduce this a little better than I would. Here are her views...
During my first year as a public high school teacher, I prided myself on being unconcerned with what I called “bullshit” rules that other instructors had. For instance, I didn’t give two shits and a shekel if my students chewed gum, even though other teachers had a zero tolerance policy about Bubble Yum. But then I started finding gum on my classroom floor and under the desks, and I had to outlaw it. One day I discovered a student smacking loudly, so I walked to his desk, extended my palm, and told him to spit the gum out. “Are you serious?” he asked, clearly dumbfounded that I would actually let him put chewed gum in my hand. I raised my eyebrow (My personal patented “evil teacher” look.) and replied, “Spit or swallow; it’s up to you.”
Yeah. I didn’t really think that one through before I said it in front of a classroom full of horny teenagers. But later I did start thinking… about what other women do when it comes time for a man to shoot his load during a blow job. I’d never really thought about it and had just gone with my instinct the first time I’d found myself in that position and stuck with it ever since, but it occurred to me for the first time that there were several options for how to handle cum during a blow job.
How to React
Although men might not agree, probably the most important thing about handling the cum during a blow job is to have some sort of indication or forewarning that the man’s climax is imminent. When you’re made aware before the cum starts flowing, you can be better prepared to react accordingly. This may require you to ask your partner beforehand to let you know verbally that he’s about to cum if you’re not familiar enough with his body to be able to predict when he’s going to reach climax.
Spit or Swallow
One option is to take the spurts of semen in your mouth, then either swallow or spit out the cum. If you choose to spit out the semen, it’s a good idea to be prepared beforehand and have a container, cloth, or tissue ready on the sidelines into which you can dispose of the cum.
Tissue/Towel/Receptacle
Another option is to “catch” the cum in a tissue, towel, or other receptacle. Truth be told, this is more difficult than it sounds and can end up making exactly the “mess” that you were perhaps hoping to avoid in the first place.
Body Shot/Facial
A final option is to let your man pull out of your mouth and cum somewhere on your body. As alluded to previously, a body shot is very often easier to clean up afterward, assuming your man shoots his load in a centralized area. A facial can, of course, be more difficult to clean up since you run the risk of getting semen in your hair, which can then require a shower.