Poor number 69. It used to be just like all the other numbers, but we had to go and turn it into a sex term. Now any time that number is called out for your order at Burger King, you can’t help but snicker, right? While having a 69 can be a lot of fun, it can also be a bit of an awkward disaster if you don’t know what you’re doing. Here are a few tips that can help you get that perfect 69 every time:
What is a 69?
For those of you who don’t know what a 69 is, it’s basically a sex position where both partners give each other oral sex at the same time. The name comes from the way 69 looks because it seems like there are two heads pointed towards each other’s no-no zone. A yin yang sign is also associated with sex on occasion for the same reasons.
Getting ready for the 69
You’ll obviously need someone to have sex with, but you need to make sure that person is ok with what you’re going to do. Although a 69 isn’t necessarily a crazy concept, some people may not want to try it just because they never have before. If you’re working with someone who is being a little stubborn about it, try giving them oral by themselves and then casually whipping around so that your genitalia is dangling by his or her mouth. You can only hope that person will take to it like a fish does to bait.
If you are two different sizes…
A 69 is ideal when two people are roughly the same height because their torsos will be the same length. If you’re working in a situation where you are significantly taller than your partner, it’s going to be a little more difficult for you to reach each other’s equipment. The best solution to this is to put the taller person on top so that he or she could bend upward. You can have a 69 with both of you lying on the bed, but it’s usually better in a top and bottom setting.
Advice for men and women in the 69
Snce you’re basically doing everything up[side down, you’ll need to approach the oral a bit differently.
Men: Make sure to really work your woman’s clit in this position as it should be right in your face. Massage her g-spot if you get a second, but really focus on that clitoris. If she’s on top, you should have an easy reach ot her boobs or butt, so feel free to give them a squeeze along the way.
Women: A reverse blow job is no easy task because most women have a tendency to get really teethy in this position. Try your best not to bite his dick in any way, and work that tongue as much as possible. Some men love the heads of their penises to be played with. Others prefer it to be left alone. Adjust your style accordingly
Final thoughts on 69s
Overall, make sure that you let one person cum before the other because f you try to do it at the same time, you’ll end up with a big mess. An orgasm is a spasm of your muscles, and it’s really hard to blow someone while you’re convulsing. Work together until the climax and then take turns.
4 Replies
Lalalakenzie26 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship
Okay so I'm a couple inches shorter than my bf but probably like 10-20 pounds lighter. Should he or I be on top? If he were on top would it be more like him "face fucking" me? Or do you know if that would be at a higher intensity? We've never done this before and I am really excited to try it but also nervous!!!
Mscherrypie345 · you should be on top it easier for you #1 but its good for him too and if your mouth cant reach his penis you can always give him a handjob while his searching your treasure
Ella / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / In a relationship
Ok so I am 5'4and my boyfriend is 6'4. I'm not sure who should be on top, due to he is a foot taller than I am! lol
Cubanbell · I have the same problem Ella!! I am 5' 0 and my boyfriend is 6' 1 so needless to say we have not done this together yet because I'm a little concerned with the height difference. If he is on top would that be weird and hard for me to control? I've always been on top because I've never dated someone so much taller than me before. Advice would be helpful
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