We often go on dates and end up saying goodbye and not having the chance to see her again. You’ve just been dumped. Often you wonder what you could have done to make the date a little better, was there something you said. Most often than not yes. Here are simple tips and steps on how to make a great impression and leave her interested in you well enough for you to get to know her better.
Do your research
If it’s your first date, get a simple background check. Give time in knowing where she works or what her hobbies are. This gives you ammunition when you are conversing and shows that you are interested in her. If gives you an idea as to what type of girl you’re dating and what topics generally interests her. If she’s a gym instructor you don’t go about business and who won the election. You’re probably barking at the wrong tree. Get to go about talking about topics which relates to her work and those she could respond to.Talk to the one who setup the date or one who knows her. It is not enough that you where she works but also the small details. Knowing details such as what type of food or her favorite pair of jeans leaves her asking “do I know you?” makes her more interested and makes great conversation topics because you can get her to talk and not leave your mouth with cramps. It balances the conversation with her getting the chance to talk and you knowing what she is really like.
Location can lead to great conversation
Look for the perfect spot for the date. You should prepare the perfect setup, the perfect place. If she likes the outdoors a date on the beach would be most perfect. Knowing the type of person gives you an insight as to what would work and not. If knew that the girl works in a Manhattan office a date at Mc Donald’s would just not cut it. Location is important; it sets the mood and gives her a feeling of trust and easiness for answering your questions and talking about things she likes.
Dress the part for the conversation
If it’s your first date, look the part. If you’re dating a girl in a restaurant, wearing appropriate clothes and shaving avoids distractions. A girl will not feel comfortable talking with you and being seen with you if you’re not dressed properly. She would feel great and have a nice conversation if she knows you have given importance in your appearance and this also means that you are sincere in meeting her.
Holding your body well in the conversation
If you’re talking to her, sit and act properly. A proper posture and appropriate gestures, like nodding when you mean yes reinforces your answers and tell her that you mean everything you say. Slouching at the table means you’re not interested and don’t care what she’s telling you. You don’t have to say I like you and I want to see you again. Maintain eye contact to convey sincerity. A gentle tap on the hands or the shoulders means you care.
Learn when to stop talking
Conversation is two way, meaning each one should have the chance to speak. If you just keep talking about yourself it leaves a negative impression on the girl. It means that you are not interested in what she thinks and she should just sit and listen. Listening to what she says is also very important. You should know when she’s asking for your opinion and what you think. You may not always agree with what she says but atleast it tells that you are listening to her.
How to say goodbye
Say goodbye appropriately. A simple gesture of a light kiss or a smile is a great way of ending a conversation. How you talk at the beginning of the conversation is equally important on how you end the date or conversation. Be aware always that you are continually talking to her even when you’re saying goodbye.
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