Ah, the time-honored quickie. Sometimes doing the deed on a deadline is about passion, sometimes it’s about the heart-palpitating possibility of getting caught, sometimes it’s about the satisfaction of sexual and stress release, and sometimes it’s just about taking the only available time you can find to connect physically and emotionally. Whether you’re standing up in a stall or sharing a little love in an elevator (stopped between floors, of course), a ten minute tryst can be terrifically titillating.
Pick the spot for the quickie
Although there’s always something to be said for a spontaneous quickie, you still need to think about location if you’re not in the comfort of your own home. Choose a location where you’re unlikely to be interrupted, especially if you find it difficult to perform under pressure. Nothing kills the mood faster than an audience, and nobody wants comments from the peanut gallery when they’re trying to complete a finish up a bit of fast fornication. Stepping into the shower together is always nice, since you’re also multi-tasking and helping out the environment by conserving water.
Don’t over-analyze the situation
That said, if you find yourself craving a quickie but keep counting out all your potential locations, you might be thinking about it too hard. Very often half the fun of the quickie is that it’s impromptu intercourse that forces you to improvise. Don’t restrict yourself too much and learn to recognize opportunities for which you can let go and say, “This is the perfect time and the perfect place for perfectly pronto passion.” Consider also that a quickie doesn’t necessarily require that the two of you be together. Don’t discount the virtual version of speedy sex. A quick call to your sweetie on your mobile can result in swift satisfaction at your own hand that might afford you more privacy.
Think about the quickie in the right way
Conversely, don’t assume that a quickie has to be something you do because you’re pressed for time. Planning to have a fast, passionate romp can build anticipation over the course of the day. Whether you’re hoofing it home to lock legs with your lover during your 30-minute lunch or stealing away to the supply closet with your cubicle companion during your shared break time, knowing that a quickie is in your future is something to look forward to.
Get yourself in a sex-driven mood
It will also help if you are able to be completely in the moment. If you’re distracted, the chances of your being able to reach your happy ending drop dramatically. Instead, have great “sex-pectations” for your arousing and amorous adventure. Further, keep foreplay to a minimum. You don’t have time to waste, and foreplay should fill a fraction of the time frame it otherwise does when you’re not pressed for time.
Stay safe even in the rush
It’s also important to be prepared. A pregnant pause in the middle of a mercurial moment of passion while you worry about, well, pregnancy, just might kill the moment. If you think there’s any chance for a quality quickie, have a condom or your usual method of protection waiting in reserve on the sidelines.
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